God is God. When everything else was just blackness and empty space, He was there. We weren't. If everything else again becomes blackness and empty space, He will still be there, and we wouldn't.
He is Creator, Sovereign, King, and none of His creation can, must, could, or should question His will.
Those who did, as in the case of Lucifer and his angels, suffered the consequences.
If He moved to save many, but not all of, mankind, from hell which all justly deserve, who is to stand up to Him and tell Him He must save everyone else because He is supposed to be a God of love.
If He chooses to be a God of love only to those whom He elects unto salvation, and to be a God of wrath to those whom He passed by, who are we question Him ? How dare one compares Him to a pancake distributor ?
And even if that were to be used as example, He is the One who owns the pancakes, and the One who
gives them to whom He will .
He gives life, and He takes life.
He clearly demonstrated this in the Old Testament, to the people of Noah's days, to Pharaoh, to Israel, and the nations who opposed Israel.
He has said He doesn't change. How dare we say He changed by implying that He sent His Son to die for all humankind ? He did not.
He sent His Son to die for and redeem His people, those whom He gave to His Son as His inheritance, and for whom Jesus is their inheritance.
Some say that those who bow down to His Sovereignty and His mercy make Him a monstrous deity, in that He would send many to hell, yet in the same breath they say that the number of those who will go to Heaven to be with Him are a miniscule percentage and that is because those who would not are so corrupted they did not choose life like the small percentage did.
And yet, people take offense at the thought that God needs to regenerate sinners first to enable
many to come to Him. Why?
Is it because the thought that without God making the first move, man will not be able to come to God on God's terms and approach Him as He had said He is, and therefore man cannot share His glory ? Which is a merciful God. One who leaves men to their own corruption, or one who works His will in men that they may have help in
coming to Him.