The only ones who hear and believe the gospel of Christ are those God ordained for salvation before the foundation of the world.
Think through what you have just posted here Ken. If indeed the only ones that can hear and believe are those picked out by God then all those that were not picked out have the best excuse possible for not trusting in God, they were not picked. Thus for God to be just He cannot condemn them for something they were unable to do and if you say they were condemned for their sin then it still falls back to Him as all have sinned so His justice is again called into question by your view.
Acts 13:48 And when the Gentiles heard this, they were glad, and glorified the word of the Lord: and as many as were ordained to eternal life believed.
Ken you have got to learn to read things in context as it would clear up many of the false understandings that you have.
The Gentiles and Jews had heard Paul's gospel message, those that accepted it and trusted in the one spoken of took that direction for eternal life, and believed. Act_13:26-52 is showing the contrast between the resistant Jews and the willing Gentiles and should be read in a way that places the responsibility for believing on the people, that the people positioned themselves either for eternal life by accepting the truth or for eternal death by rejecting it.
God does not make an offer. The gospel is God is not "if you will, then I(God) shall."; it is "I(God) shall, and you will."
Actually that is just what the bible tells us. "
if you will,
then I(God) shall.";
Rom 10:9 because
if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord
and believe with your heart that God raised him from the dead,
you will be saved.
Rom_10:13 For “
everyone who calls upon the name of the Lord
will be saved.”
1Jn 1:9
If we confess our sins,
He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins
and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
The bible is clear that is those that call on God for salvation will be saved.
The action commences with God, not man, for it is God that makes His elect willing by His power.
God draws us to Him via various means but He does not force us to believe in Him as you suggest.
Joh 12:32 "And
I, if I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to Myself."
Rom 1:16 For I am not ashamed of
the gospel of Christ, because it is the power of God for salvation
to everyone who believes
Eph 1:13 And
when you heard the word of the truth, the gospel of your salvation,
and believed in Christ,
you were also sealed with the promised Holy Spirit,
Psalm 110:3 Thy people shall be willing in the day of thy power,
In the beauties of holiness from the womb of the morning:
Thou hast the dew of thy youth.
If man is forced to believe, he does not believe at all; it is the forcing power that believes for him. If he is forced to obey, it is the forcing power that obeys; and not the man.
Note the words in the verse you quote “
Thy people shall be willing” it does not say made willing/forced as you seem to think. The people will volunteer freely in the day of His power.