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The Truth Is Not Disrespect

Aaron

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In NY State - legally: From the State Health Dept Information on Getting Married in New York State
What about the ceremony?
There is no particular form or ceremony required except that the parties must state in the presence of an authorized public official or authorized member of the clergy and at least one other witness that each takes the other as his or her spouse. There is no minimum age for a witness. However, in selecting a witness, choose at least one person who you feel would be competent to testify in a court proceeding as to what he or she witnessed.


AS far as what is marriage according to the Biible? I would say that Hebrews 13:4 sums it up
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
Are two men married in truth if the statutes are changed to say they are?
 

Aaron

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What is marriage according to the scriptures? Answer this if you can.
Just look at the first marriage. A woman is brought to a man, and a pronouncement is made that they are joined and are one flesh.

Marriage is not a ceremony, it is a joining.
 

1689Dave

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Just look at the first marriage. A woman is brought to a man, and a pronouncement is made that they are joined and are one flesh.

Marriage is not a ceremony, it is a joining.
Wrong!

If "one flesh" constitutes marriage, then Jesus would not have told the Samaritan woman the man she is now with is not her husband. By this, Jesus says marriage is something external to the physical union. Marriage is a committment to sustain the union for life. Fornication is the union without the committment.

(2) I Cor. 6:16, “What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two saith he, shall be one flesh,” which passage cannot be understood to teach that fornication establishes a true and valid marriage relationship.

Protestant Reformed Church. Acts of Synod and Yearbook 1987 PRC.

“He said to her, “Go call your husband and come back here.”The woman replied, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “Right you are when you said, ‘I have no husband,’for you have had five husbands, and the man you are living with now is not your husband. This you said truthfully!”” John 4:16–18 (NET)
 

just-want-peace

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Legally yes -
But doesnt mean I accept it.

Legal truth - yes,
Biblical truth - no

“LEGAL”, is a man-made term. Anything, repeat ANYTHING can be made “LEGAL”, simply by govt endorsement, but it’s not necessarily moral, biblical, or ethical.:Devilish
 

Salty

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“LEGAL”, is a man-made term. Anything, repeat ANYTHING can be made “LEGAL”, simply by govt endorsement, but it’s not necessarily moral, biblical, or ethical.:Devilish

Isnt that what I said?????

For example - Abortion is no longer murder- legally - (in most situation) because
the SCOTUS said so.
But Morally abortion is murder and God will judge it as such.
 

Aaron

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Wrong!

If "one flesh" constitutes marriage, then Jesus would not have told the Samaritan woman the man she is now with is not her husband. By this, Jesus says marriage is something external to the physical union. Marriage is a committment to sustain the union for life. Fornication is the union without the committment.

(2) I Cor. 6:16, “What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two saith he, shall be one flesh,” which passage cannot be understood to teach that fornication establishes a true and valid marriage relationship.

Protestant Reformed Church. Acts of Synod and Yearbook 1987 PRC.

“He said to her, “Go call your husband and come back here.”The woman replied, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “Right you are when you said, ‘I have no husband,’for you have had five husbands, and the man you are living with now is not your husband. This you said truthfully!”” John 4:16–18 (NET)
Oh. You think being one flesh is sex. That's a common erroneous notion, and misunderstanding of what Paul is saying. We could argue about what Paul meant, but it doesn't matter.

Jesus said, 'What therefore God hath joined together . . .'

The two becoming one is an act of God, not man.

Fornication is an act of man, and does not make two one.
 

1689Dave

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Oh. You think being one flesh is sex. That's a common erroneous notion, and misunderstanding of what Paul is saying. We could argue about what Paul meant, but it doesn't matter.

Jesus said, 'What therefore God hath joined together . . .'

The two becoming one is an act of God, not man.

Fornication is an act of man, and does not make two one.
You seem to want to argue.
 

Aaron

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I'm missing your point. If it matters to you, state it clearly.
I've made my point. Marriage is the union of a man and woman in a covenant relationship ratified by an oarth, thereby becoming one flesh, meaning that marriage cannot be entered into by members of the same sex.

You said:
Marriage/wedding is nothing more than a public announcement of dedication to each other.
meaning that marriage can be entered into by members of the same sex.

You said I was wrong, and cited a council. I said you were wrong and cited Jesus.

You said you were right again, and I said "K."

What else do you want? You need a hug?
 

1689Dave

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I've made my point. Marriage is the union of a man and woman in a covenant relationship ratified by an oarth, thereby becoming one flesh, meaning that marriage cannot be entered into by members of the same sex.

You said: meaning that marriage can be entered into by members of the same sex.

You said I was wrong, and cited a council. I said you were wrong and cited Jesus.

You said you were right again, and I said "K."

What else do you want? You need a hug?
You are totally wrong. Jesus turned water into wine at a wedding/marriage. Any marriage is legally binding even if sinful as in cases of divorce and remarriage. Or with members of the same sex.
 

Aaron

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You are totally wrong. Jesus turned water into wine at a wedding/marriage. Any marriage is legally binding even if sinful as in cases of divorce and remarriage. Or with members of the same sex.
Does God join two men together in one flesh? Or does He, as Jesus said, join a man and a woman?
 

Reynolds

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Love . . . rejoices in the truth. 1 Cor. 13.

Is it respect to refer to someone with his 'prefered' pronouns, if they are contrary to the truth?

Would Jesus have referred to Bruce Jenner as Kaitlyn?

Was Pilate guiltless in the murder of Jesus?

So, is it love, is it kindness, is it Christian to refer to a 'transgender girl', which is really a guy, with feminine pronouns?
No. It's stupidity is what it is.
 

1689Dave

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Does God join two men together in one flesh? Or does He, as Jesus said, join a man and a woman?
Yes, a marriage is a God-ordained ceremony. It's for life. We have adulterous marriages between the divorced and remarried. Those who sin against the clear teaching of scripture in their unions. It has nothing to do with cohabitation. Jesus told the woman living with her boyfriend that she had 5 husbands, and the boyfriend is not one of them.
 
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