Tyndale,
In my opinion, which is only one man's view, Augustine and Calvin led a lot of people down the wrong theological path. Romans 9:13 has nothing to do with a autocratic, Lord selecting some for Heaven and the majority for Hell.
God sovereignly chose Jacob over Esau to be the chosen lineage that would lead to the birth of our Lord. Esau was not granted this privilege and God said that He hated Esau. Dr. Strong of the Concordance fame indicates that hated can be interpreted as ‘to love less.' One of the reasons why God chose Jacob was because Jacob married women of Israelite stock. Esau married pagan brides. It is true that Jacob had sexual relations with other maids but none of the women produced sons leading to the lineage and birth of Christ. God desired a pure race as to His own people and sovereignly knew this before their births--meaning Jacob and Esau. Isaac gave Jacob double of what Esau received because Jacob stole the inheritance. God blessed who He wanted to bless; thus, ‘Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honor and another to dishonor.'
If you look closely at the character of Jacob and Esau you will see that Jacob was the sinning saint more than Esau.
Hebrews 11:3-32 gives the list of the bonafide saints who entered Heaven. Sorry, Esau is listed among the children of God. Vs. 13 says, ‘These all died in faith . . . ' And as if to rubber stamp it again, for those who might miss it, God said in vs. 39 ‘And these all, having obtained a good report through faith . . . ' This view is confirmed by Dr. Merrill C. Tenney, Ph.D. from Harvard who wrote, Zondervan Pictorial Bible Dictionary on page 398 under Jacob's Background. Tenney's statement: ‘Jacob and Esau were children of faith, as was their father.' Don't believe quickly all the theology you have been taught; you have to study carefully to find His truth.
Check the Greek, KJV, or whatever and you will find that vs. 22 is purely hypothetical. That is why the Apostle Paul said, ‘What if God was willing to show His wrath, and to make His power known . . . . and that He might make known the riches of His grace . . . .' Only hypothetically could God have autocratically chosen some to Heaven and some to Hell. In His sovereignty He created in each of us a ‘free will' with which we decide our own election [II Peter 1:10].
God does not autocratically damn some and bless His chosen elect. Remember, ‘WHAT IF GOD WISHED TO SHOW HIS WRATH . . . ON THE VESSELS OF WRATH FITTED FOR DESTRUCTION . . . ‘ {could He not do this?} Hypothetically, He could but His standard of justice/fair play, if you will, and His goodness eternally, forbids Him from such an illogical and preposterous decision.
You made the statement to the effect that, 'This does not harmonize with unconditional election, because God hated Esau. Actually, nothing ever will harmonize with the error of unconditional election because it is a forced interpretation of the Word of the Living God.
Respectfully,
Dr. Berrian