A deficiency in the fruits of the Spirit? Where did you get that?
Faith comes through hearing. And humility is often the result of trail and error and the circumstances...i.e. eating from a pig trough can do wonders to one's pride.
.No. I am saying God provides what is needed for men to respond in faith, but not by effectual/irresistible means
The Lord personally elects to save on an individual basis all those whom are saved by His grace...
He applies effectually the Grace of jesus atoning death on Cross towards His elected out people, His :"faithful" remnant from anong all peoples...
And those are the ones whom will 'freely" rspond to the Gospel and be saved!
What you need to realize is that the drive to explain a truly free choice in the manner you are (i.e. "what determined someone to choose him?") is really just a game of question begging because it assumes that a deterministic explaination is required. Ciocchi, who debated Feinberg, put it this way: "the choice between available options "is what free will is all about . . ., and it is finally mysterious, beyond full explanation, for full explanations presuppose the very determinism the libertarian rejects..."
there is NO free will apart though from that God has, as he alone can have such!
mankind has the "free will" to decide, but that will is bound by the Will of God, and also the fact that we cannot decide some things, due to being "bound up" in a sinful state and nature!