Seems to be a lot of repitition of beliefs on both sides so I'll continue on in that venue:
Admitedly the return of Christ in the lifetime of the Apostles was a very real possibility.
However and for the sake of the debate and assuming it's a valid assumption, preterists then have to deal with the fact that the plain language of the Scriptures are clear concerning the manner in which He will return.
Christ will return bodily in the atmosphere, every eye will see Him (and His pre-ceding sign) with multitudes of global events to be fulfilled (from both OT and NT books) as of yet unfilfilled (unless spiritualized).
Scripture lists will be forthcoming if desired (yes, most are weary of the exercise).
Historically speaking the Apostolic and Early Church Fathers who either spanned the AD70 date or were in close post-time proximity of AD70 will be re-quoted if necessary to show that they looked for a future bodily return of Christ (in the same manner as He left - in His body) as well as a bodily resurrection of those who followed after (we shall be like Him when He appears).
In my research I have found no definitive preterist point of view among the ECF.
Bottom line: the preterist view has perceived problems as well as futurist view.
It's a matter of choice. To me preterism by far has the greater share of perceived difficulties with which one must deal.
My latest unanswered question being -
why is planet earth still plagued by sin and death and the created universe still in the bondage of corruption if all is fulfilled and Christ has destroyed the works of the devil?
Why?
How long will this go on and when will it end if all is fulfilled?
Romans 8
21 Because the creature itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God.
22 For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now.
23 And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
1 John 3
1 Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not.
2 Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is.
HankD