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Tithing??

Discussion in 'Free-For-All Archives' started by Multimom, Jul 29, 2002.

  1. Multimom

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    Christ didn't come to abolish the law, he came to fulfill it.

    Now, as for the "blessing" on those who don't tithe, that is for God to determine, but I feel it is a valid Biblical principle for the believer.

    Failure to tithe is why so many small churches can't afford pastors and when they do the salary is not sufficient for a single uneducated person to live on.

    Failure to tithe is the reason that the church does not fulfill the command to care for widows and orphans, we can't support if we don't have the funds.

    I'm speaking now from the minister's point of view as the wife of an associate pastor in a church who cannot afford to pay its staff and who can barely from month to month make the expenses of operating the building.

    The reason our "house" is not an "abundant house" is because of people's failure to treat God's house as a house of blessing and encouragement. Its also a failure of God's people to assure that there will be "meat" in His house.

    Don't tithe if you don't want to, but some how someway, someone is going to have to tithe for you so that your pastor can be paid and the building can be opened and ministry can continue.

    Statistics in the Baptist church alone show that 10% of the people carry 90% of the financial load of the church. So someone somewhere is giving your part. I don't know any pastors who will tell you that its Biblically acceptable for you to not tithe. I wouldn't want to be the one "robbing God."

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  2. Briguy

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    MM writes:
    """I don't know any pastors who will tell you that its Biblically acceptable for you to not tithe. """

    My Pastor was the one who preached on the fact that tithing was a 10% tax on the Jews. He is true to the word of God for what it says. He was not one bit worried that after his message, giving would go down. He knows that if a local church is meant to be that people will be lead to keep it going. Our local assembly has about 350 or so regular attenders, maybe 400 some weeks. Anyway we give $200,000+ a year to missionaries that our associated with our church. We are also in the process of raising money for a new building. We have something to the effect of 1.5 million dollars toward the building. Our church is one of many examples that it is God doing the giving through people not people writing out the same "gift" week in and week out. The scripture is not with you on this one MM. Should we both look in the NT and get scripture to support our positions? or do you admit that you would have to look to the OT and the OLD COVENANT for your scriptual support.

    In Love and Truth,
    Brian

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  3. Multimom

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    Christ didn't come to abolish the law, he came to fulfill it.
     
  4. Briguy

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    MM, We are under a NEW COVENANT established by God through the blood of His son. New means that at least some things have changed since the old. In this case basically all of the "rules" have changed. We are told to give as we are lead, to even give hilariously(sp?) but we are never told in this New Covenant to give out of obligation or to give a set amount. You can choose to give 10% if your heart tells you to but it better be cheerfully or it is a rotten gift to God. Just as a side note did you know that every seven years, in the OT, people took their tithes and went to a certain place and then sold the tithe and spent the money on themselves?

    That's not for today you say?

    Your right! and that is my point. I will post some scripture later to back up my point.
    Take care,
    In Christ,
    Brian
     
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    I am sitting here having very mixed emotions about thithing right now. I certianly understand that tithing is an OT tax to support the Nation of Isreal much as our income tax supports the US Goverment. I have been cheerfully tithing now for several months, for as MM pointed out the church has bills to pay, and the Pastor certianly deserves a living wage as he most assuradly puts in more than a 40 hour week tending his flock.

    Where do my mixed emotions come in, well having recently lost my job I am wondering can we afford to continue to tithe on my wifes income, and on the unemployment income? While my income is reduced, my expenses are not, house payment car payment etc. must still be made. I am praying for God's guidence in this area.I want to continue to give as I have, but I'm not sure I will have the resources to do that. I'm sure God will lead me where he wants me to go in this area.

    Bill
     
  6. Briguy

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    KJV 2 Cor. 9:7: Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver.

    MM, the verse above shows clearly what the NEW expectations are. Your turn to post a verse that supports what you say.

    Bill, Sorry to hear of your job loss. Those things are never easy. If you read that verse I posted you will see that you need to let your heart decide what to do. You are right God will lead you. I believe that we as the heads of our homes, working with our wives of course, need to make financial decisions that take into consideration all of our circumstances. When we have plenty, we give more. When we are in need we give less. It just seems logical to look at the whole picture. Once you decide, move forward and do not feel guilty if the resources are not there for now and you do not give what you had been. Take care and I will pray for your job situation. I am reminded of a Wayne Watson song that says.
    "Sometimes a rough and a rocky road leads you to a beautiful place"

    In Christ,
    Brian
     
  7. Multimom

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    All I can tell you is that if you don't give up on God, he won't give up on you. If you go back and read some of my posts regarding this, in this thread, you will see where even with drastically reduced income, God provided and in many ways miraculously to cover above and beyond what was needed to be paid out.

    I would encourage you to not quit. Don't abandon what your heart has encouraged you to do. I know how you feel I have often wondered if we could survive on "what was left" as well, but somehow, God always does.

    Now from my doctrinal point of view, God's word tells us that he will rebuke the devourer for our sakes if we are faithful. Believe that and I'm sure in pretty short order, God will provide you with a job that will be above and beyond what you could have asked or thought.

    I'm praying for you.
     
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    Bill, you are in a wonderful position to tithe your time instead of your money right now! That can also be of monetary help to the church when they don't have to hire someone to do whatever it is you can do!

    God bless you and keep you and I pray you will get work again quickly. In the meantime, isn't it easy to forget that life is more than money? Money is simply a convenience, actually, so we don't have to take a cow to market... :D

    Give what you do have and don't worry about what you don't. Again, God bless you.
     
  9. Multimom

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    Okay, do we believe that all of God's word is profitable, if we don't then my points are moot. I personally am an all or nothing scripture person and an inerrantist so with that said let me quote:

    Malachi 3: 6-12

    For I am the Lord, I change not; therefore ye sons of Jacob are not consumed. Even from the days of your fathers ye are gone away from mine ordinances and have not kept them. Return unto me and I will return unto you, saith the Lord of hosts. But ye said, "Where in shall we return?" Will a man rob God? Yet you have robbed me. But ye say, "Wherein have we robbed the?"

    "In tithes and offerings, Ye are cursed with a curs for you have robbed me even this whole nation. Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house and prove me now wherewith saith the Lord of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven and pour you out a blessing that there shall not be room enough to receive it. And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes and he shall not destroy the fruits of you ground, neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the fields, saith the Lord of hosts. And all nations shall call you blessed for you shall be a delightsome land." saith the Lord of hosts.

    Now to justify my use of Old Testament Scripture in this area, let me quote:

    2 Timothy 3:16

    "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness. That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished to all good works."

    Surely we understand that the word of God must be interpreted by itself and in view of the whole. I don't discard the Old Testament, just because it's the Old Testament. I consider that to be cafeteria style faith which results, for most believers, in a very unbalanced and unheathy spiritual diet.
     
  10. Briguy

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    MM, take a look at the following verses and tell me how you fulfill the required tithing that is going on here. KJV Deut. 14:22-28:

    "14:22: Thou shalt truly tithe all the increase of thy seed, that the field bringeth forth year by year.
    14:23: And thou shalt eat before the LORD thy God, in the place which he shall choose to place his name there, the tithe of thy corn, of thy wine, and of thine oil, and the firstlings of thy herds and of thy flocks; that thou mayest learn to fear the LORD thy God always.
    14:24: And if the way be too long for thee, so that thou art not able to carry it; or if the place be too far from thee, which the LORD thy God shall choose to set his name there, when the LORD thy God hath blessed thee:
    14:25: Then shalt thou turn it into money, and bind up the money in thine hand, and shalt go unto the place which the LORD thy God shall choose:
    14:26: And thou shalt bestow that money for whatsoever thy soul lusteth after, for oxen, or for sheep, or for wine, or for strong drink, or for whatsoever thy soul desireth: and thou shalt eat there before the LORD thy God, and thou shalt rejoice, thou, and thine household,
    14:27: And the Levite that is within thy gates; thou shalt not forsake him; for he hath no part nor inheritance with thee.
    14:28: At the end of three years thou shalt bring forth all the tithe of thine increase the same year, and shalt lay it up within thy gates: "

    MM, the verses you shared are certainly geared at Isreal and what was going on in that time and under the OLD COVENANT. The OT is truely important but the rules of the OLD COVENANT are gone. You are confusing OT passages with the OT covenant, which we are not under anymore.

    Example: If you get promoted at work and get a whole new job discription you are now responsible for the NEW duties and you are not responsible for the OLD ones any more, even though the experience of the old duties have shaped you and are very important you now are looking forward and performing what is now expected.

    Hope the point in that was clear.

    Bill, take care of your family as best you can. Helen pointed out that you can tithe your time now. That was a great suggestion, give in time what you can't in finances [​IMG]

    In Love and Truth,
    Brian
     
  11. Multimom

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    Actually this really does fit my postion. It is simply an instruction to take the first fruit of your labor. Whether that be money or other. I know many small country churches who have literal "store houses" for people who bring in produce grown in their own fields. This is then dispursed among the people of the church and community who are in need.

    This is still not a dismissal of tithing.

    For I am the Lord, I change not;

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  12. Briguy

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    MM, You stoped at verse 25 when verse 26 totally changes the meaning of the passages. That is really a "cheap shot" and I am disapointed that you would do such a thing. My Bible is a whole, yours apparently consists of only verses that, out of context, promote your view point. Show me anything in the New Testemant and meant for the New Covenant that supports your position. MM, The Law and its rules have been fulfilled and we now operate under grace.

    Which Levite do you pay your tithe to? It seems from the passages here that a tithe went to a Levite(priest).

    BTW, Do you kill a lamb every year!! as is written in "THE LAW"?

    Frustrated, yet in control and loving Jesus,
    Brian

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  13. Multimom

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    Brian:

    I'm not denying that we are under grace, but I am telling you that it is not acceptable for you to give when the mood hits you.

    If you are doing that then someone else is making sure your Pastor is paid on time.

    Now I'm not saying that you personally are doing this, but if you based the Pastor's pay day and his pay amounts given and when its given by 90% of the church (as I stated before SBC stats show that 10% of the church members carry 90% of the financial load of the church) This man would get paid about once every 6 months and only about 1/3 of what his salary. Regular income into the church provideds for regular out go and unless people give regularly and in regular amounts consistantly then no one gets paid. Ask your financial committee what the Bank requires if the church seeks out a loan. You have to produce income records and inconsistant income will prevent approval. You must be able to show constant income and a reasonable projection of future income. How can a church do that if people don't tithe??

    If everyone gave "whenever" and gave "whatever" the Pastor would get paid "whenever" and "whatever". And truthlfully a whole lot more than the 1500 pastors that quit everymonth, would be quitting the ministry. (Statistics show that approximately 1500 ministers leave the ministry every month.)

    Lets go hypothetical. Say you work 40 hours a week and you make $500 per week. You get paid on the 15th and the 30th. If you boss said, Hey Brian, sorry dude nobody paid their bill this week, we can't pay you, but we want you to still work 40 hours a week and be on call 24/7 and if someone decides to pay their bill to us in the next 2 weeks then we'll pay you your salary.

    So you see the "whatever I want to give", "whenever I want to give it." Reduces the Pastor to the position of unpaid slave and that is Biblically just WRONG.

    And if you look closely:

    14:26: And thou shalt bestow that money for whatsoever thy soul lusteth after, for oxen, or for sheep, or for wine, or for strong drink, or for whatsoever thy soul desireth: and thou shalt eat there before the LORD thy God, and thou shalt rejoice, thou, and thine household,

    There's really nothing wrong with enjoying the fruits of your labor. Or do you believe that it is wrong for you to spend your money on whatever you choose? If you do, then you are saying that every nickle you earn goes to the church or are you consuming it somewhat on your own desires.

    You said "My Bible is a whole, yours apparently consists of only verses that, out of context," If you deny tithing as a Biblical principle then I could say the same of you.

    If you read on in Deuteronomy, Verses 26 and 27 read: And you may spend that money for whatever your appetite craves, for oxen, or sheep, or new wine, or stronger drink, or what ever you desire; and you shall eat there before the Lord your God and you shall rejoice, you and your household. And you shall not forsake or neglect the Levite (God's minister) in your towns, for he has been given no share or inheritance with you. At the end of every three years you sahll bring forth all the tithie of your increase the same year and lay it up within your towns. And the Levite (because he has no part or inheritance with you) and the stranger or temporary resident, and the fatherless and the widown who are in your towns shall come and eat and be satisfied so that the Lord your God may bless you in all of the work of your hands that you do.

    So since you think we should ignore this (leading me to think that you don't believe what Paul told Timothy when he said that "all scripture is profitable.....") and since you think that do you personally pay your pastor an amount of your increase every three years since you don't tithe.

    Bri, we aren't under the law, but we are under the unbrella of God's divine instruction and to believe that it is okay for you to decide when and where you grace God with your money is, I believe in error." Do you steal (10 commandments), do you murder (10 commandments) do you ever wish you had something that someone else has (covet - 10 commandments). Yes these are Mosaic law, but they are still to be honored as is every single word and work of God. If everyone did as you advocate, many, many churches would be forced to close down and sell their properties.

    You spoke of your Bible as a whole. Do you really believe that? If you do then how do you justify not tithing, and do you dismiss Pauls admonition to Timothy that all scripture is profitable...... Since you accused me of "lifting out of context" you have done the same. by saying that this part applies, but this part doesn't. Again I call that cafeteria style faith which usually results in an unhealthy spiritual diet for the believer.

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  14. Multimom

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    I asked one of the pastors on the board to post this in the Pastor's corner so that we could get their take on this. So far there have only been 4 responses. One person who was vasilacting and the two above which I copied and pasted here and one pastor who quoted that "Bring ye all the tithe into the store house" sounded pretty clear to him.
     
  15. Briguy

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    MM, Thank you for your well thought out posts. I think our difference is a problem with a core belief. For some reason you want to cling to the "law" or the "old covenant". Do you realize that the "law" was strickly something given to the Isrealites, and that it was for only one period of time. That time frame is from Moses to Jesus. The "law", ten commandments and all, ended with the establishment of a NEW COVENANT that Jesus made with Isreal that all believers can benefit from (some say the new covenant is with "the church"). Anyway, don't get upset about the ten commandments as the principles were in effect long before they were written and will continue until Jesus returns. The rules as strict guidelines to behaior are gone. Sacrifices, tithing, remember the Sabboth, killing witches, etc... are gone and we now have a new set of "rules" to live by. MM, You admit that we are not under the "law" yet you cling to the tithing part of the law. The law is gone and a 10% tithe (tax) is gone as well. Christians are now called to give what they see fit as described by my verse above. We now have a Holy Spirit to lead us, under the old covenant the "comforter" had not come yet now the "comforter" tells us what to give and who to give to. Praise God for the gift of the Holy Spirit.

    MM, Tithe if you must but be cheerful about it. If you give with a grudge, the gift is not acceptable to God.

    Also, I have said my pastor preached against a tithe but did say we should plan our giving. As I have said for a medium size church our church has a lot of funds. New Covenant giving works very well.

    Let go of the "law" that binds you and be free in the grace that abounds in Jesus. (wow, that was almost poetic :D )

    In Christian Love,
    Brian
     
  16. Multimom

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    Brian:

    Just so you know, I don't tithe because I must, I tithe because I am thrilled to follow the Lord's commands, it does not cause me any anguish or frustration or irritation. He did say, "If you love me keep my commandments." I don't give grudgingly and if someone else is tithing but all the while muttering, I agree that God is not pleased with that.

    Yes I do, but Jesus did say, I didn't come to ABOLISH the law but to FULLFILL it.

    So by his own words He didn't come to get rid of the law, what he did do was come to free us from the compulsary obedience of it. So that we could by our own faith and trust in him choose to abide by them in the joy of our salvation.
     
  17. Briguy

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    Hi MM, Jesus did say that he fulfilled the law, this is in the sense that he completed the system of the law. When you finish a project and you really complete it, it is done. You move on to the next project. Jesus is not in anyway saying that some of the "law" still remains he is saying that the "law" pointed to something and he is the something. The "law" and its revealing of sin pointed to the coming of a forgiver of that sin. That is what was going on in that passage.

    MM, you wrote """He did say, "If you love me keep my commandments." """

    Yes, Jesus said this and no it is has nothing to do with Old covenant comandments but of the new message he was bringing. Look up any commentary you have lying around and it will show you from the words used what Jesus was referring to.

    I guess my question to you would be why are some parts of the "law" obviously not for us today yet you believe some are. As I mentioned we do not kill witches now or many other things commanded in the Old Covenant. It passes away as a whole or it still exists as a whole, I just do not see any other options. If you see another option, what is your scriptual support for your position?, beyond the two scriptures that you used that don't actually support your position.

    MM, Thanks for the good, even tempered discussion on this. This has been interesting and fun - so far anyway ;)

    In Love and Truth,
    Brian
     
  18. Briguy

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    "Bump" - Just so this doesn't get lost.
     
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    Bump -- Still waiting on ya MM, your making me all sad here [​IMG]

    -Brian
     
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    Sorry to leave you hanging. School has started and sometimes I don't get to all of the threads I'm following.

    For example, I have to head to the school shortly and provide my 14 yo son with the homework papers he left on the bar this morning.

    You said, "Christians are now called to give what they see fit as described by my verse above."

    While that is true many don't "see fit" to give at all. As I stated before 10% of church members carry 90% of the financial load of the church. Which means 90% of church members don't "see fit".

    Now let me see what I can find, It's been a while since I read the story of the widow's mite but I'm sure I can find something applicable there.

    And he sat down opposite the treasury and saw how the crowd was casting money into the treasury. Many rich were throwing in large sums. And a widow who was poverty stricken came and put in two small copper mites (the smallest of coins), which together make half of a cent. And He called His disciples to him and said to them. Truly and surely I tell you this widow (she who is) poverty stricken, has put in more than all those contributing to the treasury. For they all threw in out of their abundance; but she, out of her deep poverty, has put in everything that she had---(even) all she had on which to live.

    Mark 12:41-44

    Now while this isn't a direct Tithing example, she was participating in the as you called "tax" of the Jews. But she gave out of her lack. Jesus didn't stand there and say, "This is a tax against the Jews and in the new covenant you don't have to give." No, instead he commended to his disciples the fact that the widow have her last penny.

    Somewhere in that we have to understand that we don't give in arrogance, but we still must give. If we give as WE "purpose" without some sort of guideline, how can we support our church. Bri, from what I have discerened you probably are very generous in your giving, but unfortunately that is not always the case.

    I'm reminded of the story where a little girl and her father went to church. At offering time the little girl watched as her father put a $1.00 bill in the offering plate. Since this was the first time the little girl had been to church, she was a bit confused but at sermon time, she settled in to listen. Finally the service was over and as they were going home the father commented that the sermon sure was bad. The little girl piped up and said, "What did you expect for a $1.00?"

    Now as to the "tithing" tax. I'm not bound by the law, but I do feel that it is a Biblical principle well worth the effort.

    Bri, will you at least conceed that most people who don't tithe, don't give either? Convention statistics bear that out.
     
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