He, when referring to a male, is not offensive.Originally posted by TexasSky:
What's so sad about it? All it is doing is trying to be inclusive and to overcome the inherent bias in the construction of the third person singular pronoun.
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Why is use of he or of she, biased?
I am very proud of being a woman as God created me.
I am very happy with men as God created them.
I see men and women as compliments to one another, and I'm proud enough of who I am that I am not offended or made to feel small by words such as "he" "she." Nor do I believe that God is a woman.
She, when referring to a female, is not offensive.
He, when referring to a male or a female CAN be offensive. When used generically to refer to any individual, using "he" exclusively is naturally biased toward the male sex.
He/she is quite ridiculous, but not having a sex-neutral (not neuter, mind you--a person can't be "it") third person singular pronoun is also ridiculous.
I prefer alternating between "he" and "she" when I'm writing instead of using he/she.
For example:
Whenever a college professor gives a midterm, she needs to provide an exam that fairly measures the students' knowledge. As a student takes this exam, he will find the exam to be far more productive.
The Father is not a woman, but neither is he a man
I have no problem calling the Father "he" and the same for the Spirit because these terms are not used as generalities. We should not change them to "she" because of historical usage of the term "Father" and the corresponding tradition of using "he." Even so, we must be sensitive in this matter, explaining that the term is not intended to describe sex.