To Do Or Not To Do.

[salzer mtn]

Was he Hardshell?

If I was to answer that question people on this board would say I am judging him, so I will just say I don't know. :thumbs:

 

[Thousand Hills]

If I was to answer that question people on this board would say I am judging him, so I will just say I don't know. :thumbs:

Hardshell, softshell, or chalupa I don't care. But I do like the quote as well. :thumbs:

That being said, I don't think you are necessarily being judgmental or overly critical. I'm guessing this is someone you admire and your perception of them has changed because of this. Sometimes you just have to trust a person's character even though they are handling a situation differently than you would have. It's not like he's running out to the bars and running wild since she's gone. It's possible they might of even known this other lady as well and his wife thought highly of her?

 

[salzer mtn]

Hardshell, softshell, or chalupa I don't care. But I do like the quote as well. :thumbs:

That being said, I don't think you are necessarily being judgmental or overly critical. I'm guessing this is someone you admire and your perception of them has changed because of this. Sometimes you just have to trust a person's character even though they are handling a situation differently than you would have. It's not like he's running out to the bars and running wild since she's gone. It's possible they might of even known this other lady as well and his wife thought highly of her?

To tell you the truth I have no dog in the fight so people can do as they please. The only reason I brought it up as in the south and it may be just a custom among country folk but people I have grown up with would wait at least a year. As the old saying, She is not even cold in the grave till he married again. :laugh:

 

[annsni]

After having seen this ourselves, I did ask hubby that if I died first, could he please wait a year before he gets married. He agreed.