Yes, I am not a Calvinist, I am a non-Calvinist.
Yes, to clearly state the doctrines you believe are biblical is critical. Note all those posts addressing this or that doctrine which is not believed. That does not move the football.
1) "T" = Total spiritual inability. False doctrine. Actual biblical Doctrine = Limited Spiritual Ability, the lost are able to understand Spiritual Milk
2) "U" = Unconditional Election. False doctrine. Actual biblical Doctrine = Conditional Individual Election based on God crediting the person's faith as righteousness.
3) "L" = Limited Atonement. False doctrine. Actual biblical Doctrine = Christ died for all humanity, those to be saved and those never to be saved, providing the means of reconciliation for the whole of humanity.
4) "I" = Irresistible Grace. False doctrine. Actual biblical Doctrine = The lost do not need to be supernaturally "enabled" in order to seek God and trust in Christ.
5) "P" = Preservation of the Saints. Some versions of this doctrine are false. Once born anew, we are kept by the power of God, and thus will endure to the end. Endurance to the end proves salvation, rather than provides salvation.