The way some of you guys teach this goes too far in that it demands a reduction of salvation to the point of disappearance.
The way I understand God's word as a whole appears to differ greatly from the way you currently do, and what you see as "too far" is exactly how far I see the Scriptures going.
What's more, it seems "too far" for most who, these days, profess Christ;
"Too far" for them to accept, and it discourages me to no end.
My friend, it's all in what's
written...
Not in man-made or "reverse-engineered" / "systematic" theologies, theories, or "what-if's".
It's in
the words themselves...His words.
That said, I'm not here to insult you Dave.
I'm here to proclaim the truth, and I've nothing to gain by disobeying the Lord's commands and "debating" to win an argument.
Others here may do that ( and even be comfortable with it ), but I never will.
It took the Lord a good bit of time to show me what He has, and I once believed very similarly to what you express at times.
That is why my best advice, if you've truly believed God's word during the preaching of it, and believed
on Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, is to put much time and effort into studying it:
" Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth." ( 2 Timothy 2:15 ).
I was 25 years in the Lord ( 37 years old ) before I began to see election for what it was...
Another 21 years have gone by, and I'm not even remotely the same in my understanding of His word as when I started out;
But I am what I am by His grace and mercy alone, and I've much to thank Him for ( and I do, everyday ) when I finally get see Him.
May He bless you in those studies.