I do not know who those "folks" are to whom you continually appeal, Van, but when you make claims and arguments about what other people "really" believe up against what they tell you they believe then you cannot but generate heat.Folks, it was suggested my repetitive suggestion we end discussion because we are generating more heat than light was somehow inappropriate. The unity of the body is something all Christians are required to nurture by wise behavior. We are to turn away from divisive people. And we are to keep ourselves in check.
For my part, there is no divisiveness. It seems that you are responding out of frustration because those whom you wish to argue are not in truth believing what you want to make them out to believe. In other words, you have created a strawman and can't find anyone to assume that role. So now you pretend that they are divisive (as if they are arguing against their true beliefs just to somehow invalidate your invalid argument).
Brother, just argue your position and let other's argue theirs. That would solve much of the "divisiveness" here.