And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong be upon thee: I have given my maid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her eyes: the LORD judge between me and thee.
Genesis 16:5 AV 1873
Then Sarai said to Abram, “May the wrong done to me be on you! I gave my slave-girl to your embrace, and when she saw that she had conceived, she looked on me with contempt. May the LORD judge between you and me!”
Genesis 16:5 NRSV
Then Sarai said to Abram, “This is all your fault! I put my servant into your arms, but now that she’s pregnant she treats me with contempt. The LORD will show who’s wrong—you or me!”
Genesis 16:5 NLT
Then Sarai said to Abram, “You are responsible for the wrong I am suffering. I put my servant in your arms, and now that she knows she is pregnant, she despises me. May the LORD judge between you and me.”
Genesis 16:5 TNIV
Then Sarai said to Abram, “You are responsible for my suffering! I put my slave in your arms, and ever since she saw that she was pregnant, she has looked down on me. May the LORD judge between me and you.”
Genesis 16:5 HCSB
Genesis 41
Vs 1 Problem presented (no child)
Vs 2 Sarai’s proposal
Vs 2 Abram’s response
Vs 3 Sarai’s action
Vs 4 Abram’s response
Vs 5 Hagar’s actions
Vs 5 Sarai’s response/charge
Vs 6 Abram’s proposal
Vs 6 Sarai’s response
As patriarchal (family) leader, Abram was responsible for everything that happened.
He didn’t have to listen to his wife, if he did the decision and it’s result was his, not hers.
Any "sin" that might have occurred in this episode, happened under the leadership and responsibility of Abram.
And Sarai knew that!
Rob