Originally posted by Juan Diego:
But you chose a public place to do such and therefore invite others to read and the result is they want a chance to respond. Have you found any Catholic forums that refused to allow non Catholics to participate?
I haven't even looked. I am not "witch hunting" and seeking out all Catholics to tell them how I believe. I will share what I believe with those I come in contact with, but I am not seeking them out in a place where they should be allowed to fellowship with each other.
You call it a public place, but are you paying for the domain hosting? Are the one paying for this access? Just because you can "log on" does not mean you own it and are therefore granted public access.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
Thank you that *is* fair.
Why is it "fair"? Would you expect to be able to enter my church and do the same thing? I don't think it would be unfair for a Catholic forum to ask me not to post, you know why? I am not Catholic and all Catholics have the right to fellowship without interferance. I don't know, maybe I am just too adamant on having the right of freedom of speech and religion, even on the internet. Having the right to assemble without
having to allow others of different faiths. I thought the persecution to make you
have to listen to a religion that you dont' agree with inside of your own private domain ended with the constitution.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
Isn't that what you're saying is the duty of a Christian?
It is the duty to share the beliefs, it isn't my duty to enter your sanctuary and private domain to do so.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
Which was very unfair. You're in a public place.
So you help pay for this domain? Did we hide the fact we were a baptist site? It is misleading in any way of what you will find when you come to this site?
How come you only acknowledge the unfairness you feel has been done to you. Why not realize that you are not treating us with this so called "respect" that you are demanding we give?
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
I certainly hope so.
Indeed, for I haven't met a Catholic in real life yet that demands to enter my home or my church and tell me how wrong and unfair I am.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
Keep doing that and you won't have many friends. How about convincing them of your conviction by how you live your life and treat others. Don't you think that would be more effective?
I didn't word it very well. I treat my Catholic friends, just that way, as friends. We know what the other one thinks, but that is not all we talk about or focus on and neither of us disrespects the other's beliefs inside thier own home.
See, you make judgements on how I live my life and treat my friends and you don't know anything about me. Your judgements are not even accurate by reading my posts. You are basing them on an opinion by reading a few words I typed and deciding for yourself what attitude and spirit are behind them. Go in the archives and you will see that I have cautioned people against that very thing. The reason why I say you can't judge us by this forum alone is that you can't see my attitude and it is soo easy to misread intentions especially if somethings are not worded well. It is hard for a lot of people to put things into written words, myself included. Yet you are ready to stand on the judgement throne against me, but I guess that is ok, for Catholics CAN be rude and judgemental. As long you as don't use the word false you can be as mean as you like.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
OK. I can buy that, but sometimes I see some who cannot articulate their beliefs become very unchristian. Just the term "false beliefs" toward another is somewhat inciteful and is demonstrative of an ignorant person. I look at such a person and immediately form the opinion that he is very prejudiced\bigoted unable to back up his belief with true knowledge. If you want me to see that my belief is false you (1.) best not call it false (2.) and you should explain it to me using references and explanations that will convince me that it is false without my having to hear that it is. Once you are able to do that, I will not have a problem with calling it false myself.
In threads where specific issues are dealt with you will find me using scripture to back up my beliefs. You will find that I am very adamant that scripture be the final authority on settling a dispute. We disagree because we disagree where that authority is. You say the Church, I say God's Word. I said a long time ago that we will NEVER convince either one and we will NEVER get anywhere because we can't agree on this. That is why I actually seldom join in these conversations. I just speak up from time to time and then I usually bow out. That is my style. I speak my peace and let it be said and let it rest. At least I know I have spoken the truth.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
It's not the pride issue so much with hearing "false," but I have a tendency to turn off someone whose couth allows them to say it.
See, you are here in a Baptist Forum where we believe it is false. You should realize you ARE going to hear it, whether you agree or not. False is false, I won't change my opinion of it just because the word hurts your pride or your feelings. You can continue to think you are better then me becaues you don't use the word. The Bible used it, and so will I.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
First you are assuming that the leaders of my Church are liars and hypocrites and that I am standing up for such. I couldn't disagree with you more.
I am not assuming anything. I am taking what they believe and comparing it to what the Bible teaches. I don't care if you agree or not.
See, we disagree and the only way you will accept that is if I shut up about what I believe or agree with you. I can't do either, I am sorry. That is my point. I am at a Baptist Board and shouldn't have to do either.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
I don't assume that the leaders of your church are liars or hypocrites because that is called rash judgment. It is unchristian to make such judgment of others.
Unchristian to do as Christ said and keep away from those who are teaching lies. To listen to the Bible and be able to identify false doctrines, to obey the Word and show people the errors of thier ways?
You assume my judgement is rash because you don't agree. That doesn't make it rash.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
Let me give you an example. I am convinced that Joseph Smith was a liar and a fraud that perpetrated a hoax on his followers. But for me to treat any Mormon that believes and defends it as though he was a liar and hypocrite is uncalled for, unchristian, and definitly unconvincing to him.
So you are saying the Bible says to be silent about it, or that is just how
you handle it? Your definition of "unchristian" is biased and has no biblical basis at all.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
Do you see what I am saying Lorelei?
Yes and I disagree. Do you see what I am saying, or have you even tried?
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
You are assuming they are false. Maybe you are the one playing the part of St. Paul????
So you
assume Mormonism is a false doctrine, or you
know it? You think I assume and I know what the Bible tells me.
Originally posted by Juan Diego:
Articulate your beliefs intelligently, logically, and without malice and then be willing to admit when they don't match up logically. OK? Is that fair?
I am doing that to the best of my ability. There is no malice involved, at least from me. But see, you again are telling me that I am wrong..IF I do that then I will have to admit they don't match up. Wrong, they do match up. If it is fair, then you do it, for you are the one that is posting maliciously in our home, and you are not thinking intelligently or logically. Oh was that rude? Sorry, just showing how
nice that was of you to tell me that. How
Christian of you.
I sure hope you all don't treat your hosts this way in real life, I am sure you wouldn't have very many friends then either. Do you always go to someone else's house and tell me how they have to act and what they are allowed to say and how they must do only things that are or are not acceptable to you?
~Lorelei