Moving for a job...not gonna happen again. Did it twice, tired of moving.
Problems with jobs: Yes, over 50 and female are at the top of the list. Stupid interview questions such as "where do you see yourself in 10 years"...in 10 years I want to retire! Another one "how does your husband feel about you working overtime?" Like it's any of your business buddy, but if he has an issue that's between me and him (he never has had an issue before). Or the lovely "how do you feel about working in a male dominated environment"? Gee...if I had an issue with that I'd have never gone into a STEM field. There's also the software issue. I've used a few different design packages and pick them up pretty quickly. HOWEVER...if you're not FULLY conversant in whatever the company is currently using, forget it. I spent my career using Dassault and Autodesk products. But, if they're using Bentley or Smart Plant...well...forget it. Companies are also looking for contract workers...3-12 months and then you're back on the hunt. Nope...lousy pay, crummy per diem and having to maintain a second residence for my husband (who's job/career is here where we live) doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Last but not least is the $$ issue. I have years of experience and I think being offered 15 bucks an hour and no benefits is an insult. Look, I don't get out of bed at the crack of dawn for less than 25 and full bennies. So, I freelance here and there...a little drafting/design, a little tech writing, a little tutoring, a little teaching (I'm an AutoCAD certified professional). When I work, I work. When I don't, I don't. Right now I don't. I was in a car accident about 5 months ago and still having serious problems from being injured in it.
I do not "hate" men. I hate men that think that by virtue of a Y chromosome they are automatically smarter than I am. Those are the ones I have fun with! I don't know where anyone got the idea I "hate" men. I love most men, my husband, sons and grandson especially...I just have issues with idiots who don't have enough brain power to blow their noses who think they know it all.