xdisciplex said:
I have no clue what you mean. But what would you do if you were gay?
I have no doubt that this thread will either close or be moved very quikly, as such openly explicit subjects should not be brought up in a family-friendly open forum, where much of the readers may be children.
However, in answer to your question:
What would you do if you were gay?--Stop being gay! That is simple enough. It is a choice. Just like any other sin. One chooses to sin. One is not forced to live a sinful life just like a drunk is forced to drink. He lives that way because he chooses.
A murderer chooses to kill. He doesnt have to; he chooses to.
An adulterer does the same thing. He makes the wrong sinflul choice--the choice and lifestyle of a harlot.
And so does the gay person. It is a choice that he makes. No one forces his hand.
I wonder what kind of stuff you'd be saying if you simply weren't into women but into men. What would you do then?
It has nothing to do with sex. It has everything to do with sin and sinful choicies. All illicit sex, sex outside the bounds of marriage is wrong and sinful. You choose to sin, and you will pay the consequence for sin. You choose to murder and you will pay the consequence for murder, both now and in eternity. However God can and will forgive any sin. A murderer (and a gay person) can repent, come to Christ, be born again, and their lives will be changed by the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. The murderer will not live to murder any longer. The gay person will no longer live a gay lifestyle. If he does the Bible says he is not born again. For he that is born again cannot sin. This is what the verse means. It means you cannot remain in a sinful lifestyle.
Imagine being heterosexual was a sin and being gay was normal could you simply stop being into women and become gay on demand?
Being gay is and will always be sin. Adultery and fornication (heterosexual sins) are and will always be sin--sins just as bad as homosexuality. All of them are an abomination before God. God hates sin.
I don't believe in the "being gay is a choice" theory. It doesn't really convince me.
There are no theories here. All sin is a choice. The sin to commit either fornication, adultery or homosexuality is sin. There is no such thing as a "born gay." No such animal exists. Sin is a choice. If you choose not to believe what the Bible says, then that is up to you. You need to study Romans chapter one.
Romans 1:26-27 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their
women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also
the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
These were choices made by wicked individuals who rebelled against God. They were not born gay.
I think some christians are making this way too easy. If being gay was a choice then why are there gays which suffer from being gay and which even tried to cure themselves by marrying and which are still gay?
Right!
And drug addicts suffer because they choose to take crack or cocaine.
And smokers suffer because they choose to smoke.
Drunkards suffer because they choose to drink.
A family man suffers because he chose to have an affair with his secretary.
(I suppose that is respectable adultery, compared to the ugly sin of homosexuality.!) Ugh! What discrimination!!
Sin is sin in God's sight.
Habakkuk 1:13 Thou art of purer eyes than to behold evil, and canst not look on iniquity: wherefore lookest thou upon them that deal treacherously, and holdest thy tongue when the wicked devoureth the man that is more righteous than he?