gekko, the idea that Christmas started with Saturnalia is one of the biggest 'urban legends' ever propagated. Saturnalia was the harvest festival and never extended to late December. It was more in line with our Thanksgiving.
Hannukah is the closest celebration to Christmas which predates Christ. And in either the third or fourth century a celebration was established regarding the 'never-dying sun' or something like that, which was to celebrate the 'return of the sun.' It was not on the calendars before that date.
The very name of Christ is in Christmas, and unless that word itself is forgotten, the 'reason for the season' is there everytime someone says "Merry Christmas".
The Christmas tree is not necessarily pagan either.
http://www.christmasarchives.com/trees.html
I love the celebration of Christmas. I love being able to send cards talking about the Lord to friends and relatives. I love caroling from house to house. And yes, I love the hot chocolate and family and giving gifts. I love the way people smile more in stores and the way people tend to remember others more at this time of year. I love our family tradition of an absolutely quiet Christmas eve with candles and carols we sing and the Christmas story from the Bible. I love the smell in the kitchen as I bake special breads and goodies for friends and neighbors.
And then, when the festivities are over, I also love the peace and quiet again...
Festivals were ordained by God for the ancient theocracy of Israel. We also have ours. We needn't be ashamed or apologetic about them -- especially when they are Christ-centered.