I of course reject the idea that Jesus feared anything in the Garden. Here is what I do believe about the situation.
This is from a NASB:
1. Matthew 26:31 - Absolute knowledge of future events. He was not caught offguard. Fear (in the sense of being startled) did not exist because of his knowledge of all things.
2. Matthew 26:32 - Confidence of future pain but also his resurrection. Again, no sign of fear.
3. Matthew 26:38 - He expressed grief which is not fear.
4. Matthew 26:39 - Unswerving obedience. Fear in obeying would be sin because it would imply that his obedience might have been grudgingly. Remember, the food of Christ is to do the Father's will.
5. Matthew 26:46 - Fear. "Get up, let us be going; behold, the one who betrays Me is at hand!" Yeah, if ever there is a sign of fear, it is from a person who goes to the one trying to hunt him down.
1. Part of the mystery of the Incarnation is how Jesus could be fully God and still "increase in wisdom and stature" (Luke 2.52). Your "absolute knowledge" answer applies to the deity of Christ but evidently does not apply to his humanity (he grew in wisdom, i.e, he learned). Again one cannot diminish his humanity for the sake of his deity. Don't get me wrong. I believe Jesus knew what lay ahead of him. But such knowledge continued to unfold before him b/c part of his humbling himself was confining himself to time/space limitations. Notice in the verse you quote, Jesus bases his knowledge upon the certainty of God's Word being fulfilled. His knowledge, as a human, seems to have been based primarily upon his confidence in the veracity of OT prophecies (thus we have the "it is written" formula through much of his ministry).
2. Proposition #1: confidence of future pain & Proposition #2: confidence of his resurrection do not equal your conclusion: thus no fear. The 3 Hebrews were confident that God was in control of their situation (and could raise them from the dead), but that does not mean they experienced no fear during Neb's threat of tossing into the furnace. Again their fear was simply overcome by their dependence upon God. Fear drove them to dependence and not to faithlessness.
3. "Perilupos" can be translated severly grieved or sorrowful. If you look back in v. 37, we discover Jesus experienced "ademomoneo", which carries the meaning to be depressed or overwhelmed with burden or sorrow. You could argue from word choice or silence that fear is not present here, but your basis for doing so is illegitimate. I can argue that deep sorrow or being overwhelming depressed about an upcoming event shows as much "uncertainty" or "dread" (which in your reasoning equals a sinful lack of faith) as fear. If we are following your thought, any human emotion outside of complete confidence is a lack of faith.
4. Ultimately the emotion he experienced in the Garden was overcome by his obedience. You want to suggest it was acceptable for him to experience grief and sorrow over what lay ahead but not uncertainty. Such reasoning is flawed b/c both emotions can be interpreted as a lack of confidence.
Your statement that fear would show obedience that is grudgeful is silly. Are you suggesting that if Daniel was uncertain about being tossed among the felines that he was obeying grudgingly? Again fear does not equal a sinful lack of faith. It is a natural human response that hopefully pushes the child of God to a deeper level of faith.
5. I have never said Jesus was afraid of a person. I am not sure I have even said He was afraid of what lay ahead of him. I have simply said fear is a natural human emotion, and if Jesus was 100% human, it needs to be explained biblically how he escaped the emotion fear.
This verse simply reveals the reality of Jesus' "not my will but yours be done" prayer. There is no question Jesus knew what was coming and was totally committed to fulfilling His calling. What is in question is what emotions Jesus experienced as a human on this journey of obedience.
Once again, the text you have employed have failed to demonstrate your point. Nice try though.
BTW, congratulations on the birth of your child. I hope your wife did not sin by feeling any sense of fear or uncertainty throughout the birthing process. I know it can be a stressful time. It would be very difficult to say my wife was fearless through the birth of our 3 children (especially during the hemorraghing that almost took the life of both my wife and last child), but I can say she was a model of absolute dependence during those hours.