God wants all men to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth and also He wants to gather them but they are not willing. We know that God is not going to save all but those who believe.It is God going after us and we are His messenger. I will have to disagree with your acessment it doesn't agree with a scripture. We know that God wants all men to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth. So according to scripture it is God that is making one humble and meek, because God has provided a way for all men to come throught Jesus and His word. So Trust and believe in Him and don't let any word from man stray or hinder you from that.
Yes, God is not willing that any should perish. But they do. Why? This is the question you refuse to address.
Why do they perish and others do not?
God is not willing that any should perish- in other words God's nature is opposed to it, but it is necessary that men perish for the greater good. That greater good is so great that the perishing of souls is a small price to pay that it might exist. The greater good is that Christ be glorified for grace and mercy and that Christ's people be able to experience redemption and rejoice in it forever. It is also necessary that sinners perish that God's holiness might be made manifest.
God is not willing that any should perish but he is less willing that Christ should go unglorified for grace and mercy. God is not willing that any should perish but he is less willing that his holiness and wrath against sin should go unnoticed and unmagnified.
That sin exist and sinners perish is a terrible but necessary evil that the greatest of good can forever come to pass.
Why do some believe and others not believe, Psalms?
Answer the question directly and thoroughly.