I am going to try to keep this post within the general parameters of the OP, and at the same time address some points of contention.
I have already pointed out that Jesus described some who were not yet saved (I believe he's referring to Gentiles) as "sheep." Whether one holds that this is unconditional election at work, or simply God's foreknowledge of who who will be eventually saved, the result is the same--their salvation is a certainty. It is a certainty because what God foreknows today, he has always foreknown, from eternity.
That's why Dr. Bob could say:
Dr.Bob said:
(I was a sheep before I was formed in my mother's womb. I was a sheep before I could talk or walk. I was a sheep on March 16 1957 and was still a sheep on March 17, 1957 after I repented and believed. Always was a sheep. Always will be a sheep.
We also have at least four recorded instances where God has chosen people for salvation and service before they were born:
Isaiah made this assertion:
Isa. 49:1 Listen to me, you islands; hear this, you distant nations: Before I was born the LORD called me; from my birth he has made mention of my name.
So did Jeremiah:
Jer.1;5 Before I formed you in the belly I knew you; and before you came forth out of the womb I sanctified you, and I ordained you a prophet to the nations.
The angel told Zacharias regarding John the Baptist:
Luke 1:15 for he will be great in the sight of the Lord. He is never to take wine or other fermented drink, and he will be filled with the Holy Spirit even from birth.
And finally, the Apostle Paul:
Gal 1;15 But when it pleased God, who separated me from my mother's womb, and called me by his grace, 16To reveal his Son in me, that I might preach him among the heathen; immediately I conferred not with flesh and blood:
Now, these passages do not tell us what happens to all infants who die, but they do shed some light on these four, whose salvation and service were decreed from eternity.
I rest on the assurance that the future of those who die in infancy is in God's hands. I also believe we can take comfort from Jesus own words:
Mark 10:14 Suffer the little children to come unto me and forbid them not, for of such is the kingdom of heaven
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Matt 18;14 Even so, it is not the will of your Father which is in heaven, that one of these little ones should perish.
And finally, I cite this passage:
2 Cor 5:10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may receive what is due him for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad.
So, infants are not judged on the basis of their sinful nature (which they are born with); they are not judged for Adam's sin; and they have no "sins of the body" to be accounted for.
And one can make the case that Jesus death the cross covered their sin nature, just as it does ours who live.