Brother Jeremy Slone said:
as far as Matthew 23:37 He said he would have but they would not. No i don't think he lied. and show me where he tried and failed. it said he would have but they would not. When we read scriptures Some things God does for us with out conditions and Some things He does for us with conditions.
37 "O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you,
Above == YOU
how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings
I have longed to gather YOUR CHILDREN together (not YOU, YOUR CHILDREN)
but you were not willing.
YOU (you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you) were not willing
The entire section starting with the beginning of the chapter is a condemnation of the leaders - the scribes, teachers of the law, etc. Jesus is saying that they have wronged the children of Jerusalem by their error and wickedness. It never says Jesus will not save these children, it just says Jesus desired to comfort and protect the children through worthy teachers and leaders, but they would not. Instead, they killed the prophets, etc.
There's no "tried and failed" issue here at all, just a "I desire X, but you made it Y". In fact, if the leaders weren't wicked, they wouldn't have resisted Jesus, in which case Jesus would not have been crucified, etc. So if Jesus tried, He would have succeeded (since Jesus never fails), and that would have thrown a monkey wrench into the big plan.