HP: Sorry for misunderstanding you. You exemplify a first truth of reason, in that you instinctively know that the praise you received was not justified in that there was no choice on your part that merited it, but rather it was due to a simple misunderstanding. In order to do anything praiseworthy or blameworthy, one must have choice. There is no morality possible apart from this first truth, and no morality can be predicated of any intent unless a contrary choice was possible.
Now concerning the issue of physical death even in infants, one thing is certain, it is not due to imputed sin. Physical death is due to a physical connection to Adam. God shortened his span of life, and because we are partakers of his nature (i.e. physical nature,) we indeed inherit the certainty of physical depravity and subsequent death.
If you say that infants who die somehow indicate that they are sinful, you end up with a peck full of problems. First, Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law. If the curse of the law spoken of is physical death, why would believers die when Christ has already made an atonement to atone for our sins and to free us from the curse of the law? If you say it is because they still have sin, then you have made the atoning work of Christ less than effective to atone for all sin. If you say that all believers still have sin, how can the Apostle Paul be seen as correct when he states repeatedly that we have been ‘made free from sin?’
I believe that physical death as we know it today, especially the timing of when it occurs, is indeed a consequence of sin, but it is not the penalty of sin. Christ’s atoning work does not free us from the physical depravity of this world and physical death necessarily, but rather frees us from the justice of the laws demands on sins that are past. The mere fact of physical death is in no wise an indication of present or imputed sin, in adults or especially in infants. It simply is a clear indicator that we are descendants of Adam, and as his physical offspring, we inherit physical depravity.
If physical death is a sign of imputed sin, what about Enoch and Elijah that never saw death? How did they miss the imputed guilt, or were they not human?