Ok this is about the 10th time you have said a Calvinist is blinded by God. This is like saying we are unsaved. I have overlooked it in the past as pure ignorance on your part. Calvinism is an well accepted system in the Baptist faith. You have shown your lack of understanding it, and continue to say those that believe in it are blind. By doing so you have placed many posters in the "unsaved" arena as well as many well known Calvinist of the past. You do not know how to deal with Calvinism, so you claim they are blind. This needs to stop.
To address your post, isn't your idea of God even more limited? The God that you are defending has a love that is conditional, obligated and evoked only by something the sinner does. Sorry but this ain't love in my book. You are making the love of God love into something obligatory on God's part.
God owes us nothing.
The fact is that your conception of God has a "limited" type love ... limited only to those who make use of God's grace better than others.
In other words, your saying God only loves those who do something FOR Him. He gives eternal life only to those who exhibit a degree of merit in themselves because they were able to produce a right thought. In this scheme, God must see something good in them before He decides whether He really loves them. What kind of love is this???!!!!! How limited!!! Jesus loves His people in spite of their sin and delivers them out of their bondage. He loves a people who were unlovable, like me and you. But He is not obligated to save all, nor does He, but He says that He died, not for all men, but only for all who would believe. He laid down His life for the sheep (John 10:15), not for the wolves who would reject Him (John 10:26). The atonement of Christ is never said to be applied to those who would ultimately be unbelievers.
Further, if seven people owe me a debt and I cancel the debt of five, does this put me under obligation to cancel the debt of the other two? No, the truth of God's word is honored not in holding exclusively to one truth to the exclusion of another truth, but in believing the whole counsel of God.
We must never think God is under obligation ... for then it isn't a love that is free and unconditional.
"What then shall we say? Is God unjust? Not at all! For he says to Moses, "I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion."It does not, therefore, depend on man's desire or effort, but on God's mercy." Romans 9:14-16
"Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her" (Eph. 5:25)
which shows that he loves His people in a way in which it is not directed toward others, even though He genuinely calls and desires that all men would believe the gospel. Continually the New Testament texts reveal to us that the love of God or the love of Christ is directed toward those who constitute the church in a way that it is not directed to others. His love is not caused by something we do but because of who He is and according to His purposes (Eph 1:5). He has set His affection on His people from eternity ...
it isn't just some generic love for no one in particular hoping that one of them will make a decision for Him. No, we worship a personal God, not a god of impersonal determinism who just knows some fixed, unchangable future, as your position asserts.
This is not about our preferences or what we want God to be like. We cannot shape Him into our own image. God is not like us. Do not merely use unaided reason to determine what you believe.
Have a great day..