I guess what wound me up was that I would never suggest that you can make the Bible say whatever you want it to nor is there a even the hint that I have ever done so, yet that is immediately where you went. AA
I'm sorry for assuming the worst about you...that shouldn't happen...I don't recall any previous posts by you, so I was going off that one post exclusively...I was hoping to prevent you from assuming the worst about complimentarians as well.
I will hold to my ignoring comment but with some explanation.
Ignoring means to refuse to take notice of or acknowledge; disregard intentionally. The complimentary interpretation that women can only serve in gender specific roles seems to me to be ignoring (as defined) the other passages, some a few chapters away, where women are serving as deacons, preaching, teaching, etc. One set of passages becomes the norm while other passages diminished. This has been and continues to be my major issue with the complimentary interpretation. Also, the example of Jesus elevating, including, teaching and relying on women seems again to be completely ignored.
Is it too strong a word? Can you suggest a more appropriate one?
Your bolded definition is what I would have a problem with...that you believe we INTENTIONALLY disregard passages that might challenge our position.
It is beyond the scope of a forum post, and I'm sure I disagree with some on the details...but I truly believe the general complimentarian position takes into account all those passages you say we ignore, and explains them in light of the whole teaching of scripture, including, but no limited too, the general leadership (in the ruling capacities of churches) of men in the New testament. I also think that Paul's teaching on Male headship in the home plays a part in our understanding of their roles in the church. If anything, I would say the arguments for male headship in the home are stronger than those for in the church, but I think they are both right.
I have only recently looked into the fact that all the male descriptors in the NT are refering to Elder, bishop, overseer, NOT to "pastor". Which is why I can emphathize with the Gateway view that women could be shepherds...but not overseers.
Oh, yeah, and women can be deacons...no doubt...when deacon is defined and practiced scripturally as servant, not ruling board.
At our church (SBC), we let a woman speak for the whole service about her trip to israel, along with scripture passage and bible teaching and encouragement/exhortations mixed in. It was very good. But it was also done at the request of the Elders. She was not exercising authority over us.