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Would This Couple be eligible for church membership

Which couples would you recieve into church membership?

  • Common Law Marriage

    Votes: 4 80.0%
  • Church wedding - but not registered with the State/Commonwealth

    Votes: 4 80.0%
  • One party is under 21 - and grater than 25 years age difference

    Votes: 4 80.0%
  • Both under 18 (assuming your S/C allows it)

    Votes: 5 100.0%
  • both under 21 and you know that at lease one set of parents are opposed

    Votes: 5 100.0%
  • Hom0se/xual or trans couple

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • a couple that have know each other less than 45 days

    Votes: 4 80.0%
  • A couple that you have not counseled

    Votes: 4 80.0%
  • A couple getting married only because she is PG

    Votes: 5 100.0%
  • Other -- Please explain

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    5
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Bible Thumpin n Gun Totin

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All except for the 2 gay people. I would exhort you as a Brother to not call them a "couple" as when something is "coupled" together it means that two incomplete pieces combined to make a whole, to make "one flesh". 2 gay people cannot ever do that and to call it a couple implies that they can.

Other than that I have no issues with large age gaps once a child reaches adulthood at 16/18. Large age gaps are in the Bible. I think Boaz told Ruth something along the lines of "You could have married younger men your age, but you chose me" indicating a large age gap. We're told Abraham's age too at some point, if I recall correctly it was approximately a decade between him and Sarah.

We had a family in a previous Church where the husband was 50 and the wife was 30. They had almost 10 kids.
 

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Bible Thumpin n Gun Totin

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And I would exhort you not to call them "Gay"!
I cited the definition and origin of the meaning of "Couple", which is "to join or to form a pair" in connection to God's "One Flesh" definition in Genesis. I don't think it's a good testimony of God's Word to say that 2 gay people can "couple" nor become "one flesh".

If you can provide scripture where we are exhorted not to call someone gay, which is akin to sodomite, then I can swap to sodomite.
 

Baptist Believer

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Could you explain the poll a bit more clearly? Some of these options sound like they are related as to whether or not one would officiate a couple's wedding, which is not the stated question. For instance, "both under 21 and you know that at lease one set of parents are opposed."

As to "couple," are we referring to two persons who present themselves as married, or just two persons dating?
 

Reynolds

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I cited the definition and origin of the meaning of "Couple", which is "to join or to form a pair" in connection to God's "One Flesh" definition in Genesis. I don't think it's a good testimony of God's Word to say that 2 gay people can "couple" nor become "one flesh".

If you can provide scripture where we are exhorted not to call someone gay, which is akin to sodomite, then I can swap to sodomite.
I am not exactly sure what they want??? Gay is too nice, according to Salty. I used to call them "queer" and got an infraction. People can't make up their mind around here.
 

Salty

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I am not exactly sure what they want??? Gay is too nice, according to Salty. I used to call them "queer" and got an infraction. People can't make up their mind around here.

I just use homosexual -
 

Bible Thumpin n Gun Totin

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I am not exactly sure what they want??? Gay is too nice, according to Salty. I used to call them "queer" and got an infraction. People can't make up their mind around here.
You got an infraction for calling them what they call themselves? LOL. They added the Q on that thing to call themselves that.

You must have violated the 11th commandment in modern Evangelicalism. "Be nice!" Just like Jesus was nice to the Pharisees, just like Elijah was to Baal's followers, etc etc.
 

Reynolds

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You got an infraction for calling them what they call themselves? LOL. They added the Q on that thing to call themselves that.

You must have violated the 11th commandment in modern Evangelicalism. "Be nice!" Just like Jesus was nice to the Pharisees, just like Elijah was to Baal's followers, etc etc.
I made the point that they call themselves that but.......
 
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