Monergist, I took the privilege of responding to the questions on the Monergist page you posted.
If anyone thinks I am setting up a straw man here, please read and respond to the following challenge:
I often post full debates on these topics at monergism with both sides answers full showing. If you feel I have set up a straw man in my portrayal of your theology you should be able to answer a few easy questions on what it takes to receive Christ. If you can answer these questions and show that you still believe in salvation by grace alone, apart from any merit (or sheer chance) then I shall admit defeat. ("I don't know" doesn't count) Here are the questions:
I do not believe that salvation is by "Grace alone". I belief it is by FAITH ALONE, just the way Jesus says it in John chapter 3.
You are defeated by your lack of understanding, not by anything that I may say.
* Why is it that one unregenerate person believes the gospel and not another?
There are as many reasons as there are people, but some outstanding reasons are: The delivery of the gospel, the messenger that delivers the gospel, the false teachers that abound everywhere the gospel is, the condition of the unregenerate person i.e. the timing of the delivery of the gospel, (there are no atheists in foxholes, but many in penthouses)
* Was he able to generate a right thought, produce a right affection, create right belief, while at the same time man #2 did not have the natural wherewithal to come up with the faith to be saved?
You sell God short! God created man in His image, each and all of mankind is equipped the same, there are no spiritual differences in any man's ability to receive God and have faith!
* If they both made use of the same grace, did one make better use of it than the other?
Grace is Grace and it is a behavioral trait of the one possessing or exhibiting it. Grace is not a commodity that is dispensed like candy. While God is behaving toward man in accordance with HIS grace, every man has the same level playing field upon which to hear God's word and Believe unto faith in the Christ, God's only begotten son.
* If prevenient grace places us in a neutral state, then what motivates one man to believe and not another?
There is no such thing as "Prevenient Grace" There is God's grace and there is Man's grace. Grace is a behavioral attribute of the one possessing it. Grace cannot be given away as one would dispense candy. It is how one behaves toward another!
As for motivation, it is a myriad of reasons why one hears and responds and another does not. The maturity of the one verses another is a factor, but so is the environment in which one finds one's self. "It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter heaven". Hence, the rich man and the beggar Lazarus! You see where each of them ended up.
* What principle in him made him choose what he did?
What principles make one become a musician, an engineer, a streetsweeper, an evangelist, a pilot, a doctor, etc. We humans make choices based on knowledge, and God says in scripture "for lack of knowledge my people perish". So, the principle is knowledge...we choose based on knowledge! Faith cometh by HEARING, and HEARING by the word of God! The more of the word of God that you hear and believe, the greater your faith! Great principle, Praise God!
* If all men are neutral in prevenient grace was it by chance that one believed and not another?
There is no such thing as "Prevenient Grace"! For at least 2000 years, God has behaved toward mankind with Grace. If God had behaved in accordance with his Justice, there would be no man living, for all have sinned! God makes it possible for every man to hear His Word, but not ALL who hear believe, thus we have the parable of the Sower who sows the seed of faith. Some falls on hard ground and is eaten by the birds, some falls on rocky ground to sprout up, only to die in the heat of the sun, some on weedy ground only to sprout but be choked out by the cares of life, and then there is the seeds of faith that fall on good ground to sprout and grow strong producing much seed and good fruit.
* Is it the grace of God that makes you differ from unbelievers or is it your faith?
Stated earlier, Grace is the behavioral trait of the one possessing it. So you must rule out the concept "for by graced are ye saved"! It is not grace that saves...IT IS FAITH ALONE that makes man save-able!