1. I believe you have an unscriptural concept of what it means to be born again, which is the problem in this discussion.steaver said:Being born of God is receiving the permanent indwellment of the Holy Spirit of God. Spirit gives birth to spirit, two become one, a new creature is born, regeneration. To say what you said above is wrong. Indwellment is the rebirth! How can you define "born again" any other way?
2. The indwelling of the Spirit as Pentecost marked two things:
a. the fulfillment of prophecy, as given in Joel,
b. the beginning of the Church Age. (This has nothing to do with being born again.
What does it mean to be born again?
Three times did Jesus command Nicodemus to be born again. He wouldn't have given him a command that he could not obey. Nicodemus came to Jesus at peril of his own life--out of fear of the Jews--the very Jews that he ruled. He was a member of the Sanhedrin, a well-known and respected Rabbi. If this news got out his death may have been certain. Then what? Would the command that Jesus gave to Nicodemus had been totally in vain, useless information, had Nicodemus died, as John the Baptist died before the cross. No, not if Nicodemus acted on the light that was given to him at that time. He was commanded to be born again, and shown how he must be born again.
John 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
--Every Jew looked for the Kingdom. Even the disciples looked for it. Over and over they asked Christ if he was going to set up his Kingdom now. Even after the resurrection they asked the same question. Just before Jesus ascended into heaven the last question that they asked Jesus:
Acts 1:6 When they therefore were come together, they asked of him, saying, Lord, wilt thou at this time restore again the kingdom to Israel?
--It was the most important thing on their minds.
Jesus said to Nicodemus that he would never see the Kingdom unless he was born again.
Nicodemus was confused, and perhaps thinking of reincarnation asked how could a man be born when he is old, Shall he enter into his mother's womb a second time.
John 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
--This is the key verse and one of the most misunderstood.
But before we go into this verse let's look at verse 6.
John 3:6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
And then a third time in verse 7 he tells him he must be born again.
However, in verse 6, Jesus says that there are two kinds of births; two kinds of life. There is a physical birth and a spiritual birth. We all have a physical birth. But not all of us have a spiritual birth.
Someone once said: Born once, die twice; born twice, die once. That is an important truth to remember, and it is why you must be born again--to avoid a second death, an eternal death, separation from God for all eternity.
We are born into this world physically. The question is: How can a man be born spiritually?
The answer to that question is given in verse 5:
You must be born of water and of the Spirit.
We all agree that the Spirit refers to the Holy Spirit but not necessarily the indwelling of the Holy Spirit; that is reading into this passage something that is not there.
What does it mean to be born of the water? 3 possibilities; 2 that are plausible, one that is the most Scriptural.
1. Does it refer to baptism as the RCC dictates? No, we do not believe in the heresy of baptismal regeneration. Baptism does not save. Baptism does not fit this context.
2. Does it refer to the amniotic fluid surrounding the infant in a natural birth. That is plausible but I don't think it is the most Scriptural explanation. Neither do I think that Nicodemus would have been thinking of amniotic fluid at this point. He knew the OT well, and what things represented.
3. Jesus did say "water." Water does represent something. You must be born of water and of the Spirit. There are two agents here, and only two agents--water and the Spirit. What then does the water refer to? What is water commonly used for? It is commonly used for washing or cleansing, and the Jews had many ceremonial washings. But Jesus said:
John 15:3 Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.
--It is the Word of God that cleanses. Water represents the Word of God. You will find the same OT teaching in Psalm 119:9.
James 1:18 Of his own will begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures.
--Here James says that we are begotten or born (again) with the Word of truth. Water represents God's Word. There are only two agencies by which a man is born again. One is water (the Word); the other is the Holy Spirit. James says that we are begotten or born of the Word.
1 Peter 1:23 Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.
--The statement is clear. One is born again by the Word of God. The water represents the Word of God. There are only two agencies by which a man is born again: one is the Word and the other is the Holy Spirit. You must have both. You cannot be saved without the gospel. You must hear the gospel (the Word) to be born again. It is an absolute necessity. You must be convicted (not indwelt) by the Holy Spirit. Both are necessary. Salvation is by the Word of God and by the Holy Spirit. This is what Jesus meant.
Now go back to John chapter one:
John 1:11-13 He came unto his own, and his own received him not.
12 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:
13 Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
In verse 11, his own, the Jews, rejected him. They were looking for the Messiah that would set up His Kingdom right now. He didn't.
--But as many as received him, to them gave he the authority to become the children of God--even to them that believe on his name. Being born again comes from believing in Christ, as Jesus taught all through the gospel of John.
Verse 13 once again:
John 1:13 Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
Which were born of God. We are born again of God. There are many other ways that you can try, but ultimately it is the work of the Holy Spirit as he works through the Word of God that we are born into his family, and become His children. That is what it means to be born again. It has nothing to do with the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.