Are you reading the posts? You have not seen them say, that man comes to God first, then they ...become elect?
Election is about adoption. See Romans 8.
Ro 8:18 For I reckon that the
sufferings of this present time are not worthy
to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.
Ro 8:19 For the earnest
expectation of the creature waiteth for the manifestation of the sons of God.
Ro 8:20 For the creature was made subject to vanity, not willingly, but by reason of him who hath subjected
the same in hope,
Ro 8:21 Because
the creature itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God.
Ro 8:22 For we know that
the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now.
Ro 8:23 And not only
they, but
ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
Ro 8:24 For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for?
Ro 8:25 But if we hope for that we see not,
then do
we with patience
wait for it.
Ro 8:26 ¶ Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
Ro 8:27 And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what
is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to
the will of God.
Ro 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to
his purpose.
Ro 8:29 ¶ For whom he did foreknow,
he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
Ro 8:30 Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.
Man comes to Jesus first...then they get the Spirit! You can see it everyday if you look
God came to man first, many times.
God came to Adam first.
Ge 3:8 And they heard the voice of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God amongst the trees of the garden.
Ge 3:9 ¶ And the LORD God called unto Adam, and said unto him, Where
art thou?
God started the conversation with Cain first.
Ge 4:6 ¶ And the LORD said unto Cain, Why art thou wroth? and why is thy countenance fallen?
Cain also resisted God after God offered Him the better way.
Ge 4:7 If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee
shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him.
God offered a full-faith opportunity and was not lying to Cain. Cain refused with his free will.
Ro 3:11 There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.
Ro 3:12 They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
Ro 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
If that isn't God taking the initiative, I don't know what is.