1. God makes us a new creation in Jesus Christ (as in forces us).
2. He changes the will which was against God to a will that desires God. (He forces us again--God and his robots: wind them up and let them go)
3. He then gives us the faith to believe. (he forces us to believe--we have no choice.) Before we could have chosen from our own faith, but now given faith of God we have no choice but to believe.
Thus the conclusion: "We are justified and declared righteous." Yes, after all that we would be just, righteous, little robots "running around on this earth" as Benny Hinn puts it. Benny Hinn has "little gods," and you have "little robots." It fits.
Yikes! Equating Benny Hinn with Calvinists is not fair.

(Ugh...I finally used a smiley!) After all, we don't claim to be faith healers!
With all due respect, we don't think that God "Forces" us. I understand where those who oppose Calvinism get this--in fact, I used to make the same type of arguments (except for the Benny Hinn part).
We believe that man is not truly free until regenerated because we are slaves to sin (Romans 6). So, the slavery to sin means that sin is our master and, therefore, we are not free.
This is why the imagery between Old Testament Israel being set free from slavery in Egypt and the New Testament Christian being set free from slavery to sin is so striking. Notice, that God never required Israel to clean up her act before He'd set her free. He set her free first (because He is faithful to His promise to Abraham) and then He gave the law--after freedom had already been granted.
Instead of "the sovereign choice of God," an expression not found in the Bible, it is rather the choice of man made within the spectrum of God's sovereignty.
Here's a tired argument...but it works: The word "trinity" isn't found in the Bible, but you can certainly see it there.
According to your wording here, God had to do some serious thinking about who he would elect. After a few millennia passed, then it came time to regenerate those who he chose to elect. It was a hard and difficult choice for God to do this. That is why regeneration could never take place at the same time as election in the mind of God. God doesn't have a sense of time does he? It would be impossible for him to work outside of the realm of time, even though Christ was the lamb of God slain before the foundation of the world.
Certainly God does have a sense of time. He exists above time for sure, but since He condescends to us, He exists in time as well, although He is not "bound" by time. He discusses a period of years with Abraham (the duration of the slavery of Israel), certainly He has a concept and exists in time as well.
God would not have to do "serious thinking" about who to elect. If He could speak the universe into being (presumably without thinking long and hard about it), He can elect without much thought. Anything that God does is
ipso facto done well and done right. So, any choice He makes on whom to elect and whom to pass over is the right choice.
A man cannot be regenerated without faith. God will not give a spiritual gift to an unsaved man. Therefore the faith to believe is not a gift from God.
Why? God does all He pleases (Ps. 115). We don't have to give permission to God to do anything.
I contend the assertion quoted above is illogical based on two false assumptions leading to a false outcome.
How was Abraham chosen without faith (being an idol worshiper at the time God "approached" him)? The Bible doesn't say that God doesn't or won't give gifts of a spiritual nature to an unsaved man.
The regeneration and conversion take place at the same time. Without faith one cannot be regenerated, nor can he be converted. Both take place at the same time. You need to carefully study all those "whosoever" verses.
We hold that regeneration and conversion are not the same event. For how can a spiritually dead person (Ephesians 2) do anything spiritually? New life must be given.
Also, the "whosoever" verses are largely participles and are not prescriptive or imperative. They are largely declaratory--stating that the ones believing will be saved (as in John 3:16).
DHK, I know you know these arguments and I'm not writing "against" you. There are important theological questions that the Arminian-ish theology cannot satisfactorily answer, at least in my estimation.
There are many Arminian-ish Christians that I hold in extremely high regard, so this is not a question of good Christian/bad Christian. And I'm sure many of the Arminian types are better Christians than I am.
Blessings to you,
The Archangel