So you are telling me I should not take Paul's words at face value there? God has not put man in the perfect location, place and time in history to seek Him (HIS act of grace in doing so)? These people are unable to seek him and perhaps reach out for Him and find Him?
You edited your post while I was replying, and don't understand why as it is filled with nothing but strawmen and non sequiturs. Deal with what I actually say, not what you want to hear.
No no my friend, it is not full of straw men, whatever they are. It is an answer from many years of being a Christian and preaching the gospel. I am not a "hyper" Calvinist.
I have known men that do not even preach the gospel. But God has whilst ordaining that some should be saved and some not, has also ordained that we should preach the gospel so that men should be saved. But there are many things that we cannot understand about God's election of men to salvation. But just because we don't understand them it doesn't mean they are not so.
Someone once said that the free will of man and the irresistable grace of God are like two parallel lines that meet in eternity. But being a Calvinist I know I am in good company. For ALL the early fathers, who followed and knew the apostles or were contemporary with them believed in the election of God. For every one of them always referred to the saved in Christ as "The Elect".
For they had all seen that their salvation could not have taken place except God had drawn them by the Holy Spirit to believe on the Saviour. My dear friend it even takes grace to believe in these doctrines of grace, for the human heart naturally hates them. Some because they believe it does not glorify God. Some because they cannot see it in the scriptures, but how I do not know. And some do not believe it because they think that they somehow have some virtue left in them to believe. That man is not really that impotent that they cannot reach out to the true God.
As for me I see this:
hope maketh not ashamed ; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us. 6 For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. 7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die : yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die . 8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. 9 Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. 10 For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled , we shall be saved by his life.
(Romans 5:5-10)
This is how I personally see it. I am not interested in "straw men", whatever they are. I am not interested in "winning" any arguments here against any brother in Christ, Im too long in the tooth for that, what teeth I have left that is. But I did take exception because one thought that I was basing my whole theology after many years upon just one Bible text.
Believe me the Christian road is not that easy. It is not just a question of believing this verse or that verse. It is a daily struggle, even through the grace of God, not only to live the life that Christ desires us to live. But also to win souls for Christ. Yes I know I am a Calvinist. But let me also stress in human terms, if a person will not come to Christ he will not come, whatever argument you put to him. It takes no less than a miracle from God.
Yes, the new birth is a miracle of God within the heart of man. For John the baptist said, "God is able of these stones to raise up children unto Abraham". (Matthew 3:9) and to echo the words of a famous puritan, "And He does". For He has changed my rebellious heart into an heart of flesh. Having said all we must preach the gospel for it is "by the foolishness of preaching to save them that believe".
ps: yes I sometimes edit my posts (1) sometimes because of spelling mistakes (I don't get them all) Put it down to age and eyesight, and (2) I do think of things afterwards. Sometimes I put a reason sometimes I do not. But I don't wish to fight with a brother in Christ on these things. For the Christian life is hard enough and enemies of Christ sufficient enough without Christians going head to head.