I HAVE partaken of it. For years. We only stopped drinking any alcohol when we had a teen move into our home about 10 years ago. She was a very troubled young woman and we didn't want her to have any access to alcohol since she was depressive, on tons of medications and self-mutilating. So it all went down the drain. That young woman led us into ministry with the college students so we continued to not partake but we do have alcohol in our home for cooking. I just made mussels steamed in wine the other day and they were DELICIOUS!!!
But to say that I have not partaken in the wonderful blessing of the fruit of the vine, you are mistaken. I just choose to obey God and not get drunk.
Ann, if you have never been "merry" on alcohol then you have NOT partaken of anything more than a fruit of the vine.