One more time.
God hates evil.
Evil is necessary for the greater good (display of grace, mercy, wrath against sin, etc..)
Evil was brought into this world by Adam's sin. It was not God's will. I believe your problem in all of this is trying to work back from the end to the beginning, and trying to get into the mind of God, which you cannot do. It is better to take God's Word by faith and believe whether or not you can understand his truths.
Thou art of purer eyes than to behold evil, and canst not look on iniquity: wherefore lookest thou upon them that deal treacherously, and holdest thy tongue when the wicked devoureth the man that is more righteous than he? (Habakkuk 1:13)
--God does not even condone evil. His eyes don't want to look upon it so to speak. Evil is not necessary for the greater good. Such a statement is irrational. Man's heart is wicked, and inspite of man's wicked heart and man's wicked choices (of his own free will), God can sovereignly over-rule on behalf of his children.
God hates abortion but he has decreed every abortion that will ever take place.
No, that is not true.
He never decreed that any abortion take place.
Like Job, he allowed suffering; he allowed the abortion, but it is not his will and never was. It is a sin. Sin is not the will of God. God allows sin because man is not a robot forced to do the will of God as you make him out to be. He has choices as God has given him--whether to do the will of God or not to do the will of God.
He means them all for good- men who participate in them mean them all for evil.
God created man for good, for his glory. The fact that man does not live for God's glory is because of his sin nature. God did not decree it that way. Man will be held accountable for his own sin, his own choices. God is not going to hold himself accountable for man's sins.
That ought to be enough but I know I must explain this in a way that makes it more palatable for those who are more emotion driven.
I am not the one that YELLS in over-sized letters.
This is a glorious truth because it means that that baby did not die in vain. God had a purpose for it. A GLORIOUS purpose that the murder of that child will fulfill- an eternal purpose.
The result is God's mercy, not God's will.
God's will is that abortion never take place. Abortion is murder. God never sanctioned murder, never!
This was not a random act- it was planned- it had a purpose.
It was only planned by a wicked and evil mind of man, not by a holy and righteous God.
God will use this horrible event for two things- his glory and our good.
God can and will do that. The wrath of man will praise Him. That doesn't mean it was God's will to abort an infant. The two don't go together. Do we therefore push for an abortion bill and praise China's one-child policy (aborting all further children) so we can populate heaven, and then declare it the will of God? That is perverse doctrine.
That ought to be enough for ANY Christian.
Enough for what??
Enough to confuse most people with a hodgepodge of doctrines that gives a very confusing picture of the nature of God.