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It wasn't so much any particular verse that convinced me to leave Calvinism. It was understanding the historical context of those passages which first lead me to Calvinism. John 6 for example makes so much more sense when you understand that Jesus' audience (Israel) was being judicially hardened in their rebellion, which was the reason they could not "come to him." They weren't being "drawn" because the gospel (the means of drawing) hadn't been sent to them yet. It was being hidden from them in parables (Mk 4; Matt 13; Jn 12:39). And it wasn't until Jesus died and was raised that he would draw all men to himself by sending that gospel appeal to all creatures.
In Eph 1 and Rom 8, the passages also make so much more sense when you understand that Paul is speaking about believers being predestined to be conformed into Christ's image and adopted as sons. In other words, its not about God predestining certain lost people to become believers, it is about God predestining all believers to become sanctified and glorified.
And in Romans 9, the grandfather of all Calvinistic texts, has much more clarity when you see that those being hardened or "cut off" may be "provoked by envy" and saved if they "leave their unbelief" as Paul explains in Romans 11.
So, it's really about fully understanding the historical context and purpose of God's overall plan of redemption for mankind that lead me away from Calvinism.
Sure, there are many. My nephew was raised in a Reformed church and was taught Calvinism from childhood so that's all he knew. He has left Calvinism since then when he started studying in college, but he is just one example I know of.Im not sure that anyone starts out as a Calvinist although I could be wrong.
No, I would say I went from ignorance of the subject to Calvinism to Arminianism, but never liked the labels for the same reason most here don't like them.I know I certainly didnt so did you go from Arminian to Calvinist to Arminian ?
I didn't know how to explain those passages I just mentioned any other way. My first real exposure to them was with commentary from a Calvinistic author (John MacArthur), so I could only really understand them from the perspective that had been explained, and they seemed very cut and dry at the time. What was even more convincing was that most of the non-Cal pastors I went to talk to about this didn't have any real answers either, they would quote John 3:16 and 2 Peter 3:9 and think that should convince me, but they wouldn't explain what those passages meant if Calvinism wasn't true. It wasn't until I really dove in and studied the scholars on the subject that I began to see and understand the other perspective. I didn't like it at first because I thought it was cool being Calvinistic and I hated to admit I was wrong, especially since most of my friends and mentors were reformed guys....some that I had converted to Calvinism myself. It was a 3 year battle.And if so, what made you go from an Arminian and/or Non-Calvinist to Calvinist in the 1st place?
Well, I've been wrong before so I never say never, but knowing what I know now and having been on both sides of this debate, I don't see myself going back to Calvinism, if that's what you are asking. It would take a "irresistible call" to get me to go back, I think.Then lastly, are you finally settled or are you movining in another direction?:wavey:
Sure, there are many. My nephew was raised in a Reformed church and was taught Calvinism from childhood so that's all he knew. He has left Calvinism since then when he started studying in college, but he is just one example I know of.
No, I would say I went from ignorance of the subject to Calvinism to Arminianism, but never liked the labels for the same reason most here don't like them.
I didn't know how to explain those passages I just mentioned any other way. My first real exposure to them was with commentary from a Calvinistic author (John MacArthur), so I could only really understand them from the perspective that had been explained, and they seemed very cut and dry at the time. What was even more convincing was that most of the non-Cal pastors I went to talk to about this didn't have any real answers either, they would quote John 3:16 and 2 Peter 3:9 and think that should convince me, but they wouldn't explain what those passages meant if Calvinism wasn't true. It wasn't until I really dove in and studied the scholars on the subject that I began to see and understand the other perspective. I didn't like it at first because I thought it was cool being Calvinistic and I hated to admit I was wrong, especially since most of my friends and mentors were reformed guys....some that I had converted to Calvinism myself. It was a 3 year battle.
Well, I've been wrong before so I never say never, but knowing what I know now and having been on both sides of this debate, I don't see myself going back to Calvinism, if that's what you are asking. It would take a "irresistible call" to get me to go back, I think.![]()
Hi Skandelon, so what you seem to be saying is once you viewed the passages that supported Calvinism based on the whole train of thought, the context if you will, then they did not support Calvinism at all.
Now one of the problems with the "hasty generalization" is that when flaws are noticed, rather than consider the alternate, the alternate is questioned and dismissed and never really considered.
So why did you not, as so many of the Calvinists posting on this board seem to have done, simply invent reasons why the alternate could not be true because of the emotional investment in your heartfelt beliefs.
Hi Skandelon, so what you seem to be saying is once you viewed the passages that supported Calvinism based on the whole train of thought, the context if you will, then they did not support Calvinism at all.
Now one of the problems with the "hasty generalization" is that when flaws are noticed, rather than consider the alternate, the alternate is questioned and dismissed and never really considered.
I can't speak for them, but for me, I did do that for a long time. I wanted so badly to stay reformed. My family was invested in a reformed church and most of my extended family was reformed, all my best friends...it was the hardest thing I've ever gone through.So why did you not, as so many of the Calvinists posting on this board seem to have done, simply invent reasons why the alternate could not be true because of the emotional investment in your heartfelt beliefs.
My journey is similar but somewhat amplified.
In my life, I have gone from being Arminian to being a supralapsarian Calvinist to being Universalist and open theist (trinitarian flavor) back to Arminian then back to Calvinist (infralapsarian) then, (most recently) back to Arminian--interestingly enough, this last shift was due to recent debate on the Baptist Board.
Although I have gone like a ping-pong ball back and forth, I tend to view the shifts as being formative. The shifts have brought me to a middle ground avoiding the extremes of hypercalvinism and open theism. It has also allowed me to understand both sides more fairly.
How recent and with who, if you don't mind me asking? I'm always curious as to what arguments lead people to change their perspectives.this last shift was due to recent debate on the Baptist Board.
How recent and with who, if you don't mind me asking? I'm always curious as to what arguments lead people to change their perspectives.
Where to begin! I will say one of the biggest reasons is the fact I potentially could love my children more than God does if they reject Him. The fact I can love another human being (I would give my life for my kids, and if they end up reprobate according to the L and Scripture about "no greater love...", Christ does not love nor did He die for them) more than the very attribute of God Himself is unheard of! They will of course appeal to this being merely an emotional response, and while it is partially, it is grounded on Scripture and God urging us to reason together with Him.
Just a few weeks ago, actually.
It was from webdog:
This didn't seal the deal, but it got the ball rolling.
Well I never understood WD anyway..... & he was right it appears filled with emotional tripe.
It's compelling to speak of our love for our children, but I can't atone for the sins of my kids. Thus, we're talking about apples and oranges. This is one of many differences that makes this analogy false.
It is not before faith is excersized that these are imparted to us (your view of regeneration) but 'after' we have believed.It is 'by faith' we are justified (Rom 3:28) (being justified is where Old is done away - all things new)
It is 'by faith' we are sanctified (Acts 26:18,) (set a part unto God)
It is 'by faith' we are made righteous (Rom 3:22, Rom 4:5) (in a right relationship WITH God)
It is 'by faith' the propitiation (substituationary death) is applied to man (Rom 3:25) - thus placing us 'In Christ' and alive unto God - 1 Cor 12:13
It is 'by faith' we receive (obtain) the indwelling Holy Spirit (Gal 3:14)
NOTE: They were slaves 'when' called. The Greek bears this out more clearly.. basically put - they were still in chains when God called them to faith, not that they were set free.. then called. If they were still slaves then they have not received a new nature but are operating from their old.1 Cor 7:22 For those who were slaves when called to faith in the Lord are the Lord's freed people"