On the contrary...it can also make a person neurotic in doubting one's salvation. Why? ....here's why: how can a person be absolutely certain that he/she is elect? How can you know you are not being deceived?
Bottom line--it comes down to experiential elements. You believe you are genuinely saved because of evidence of sanctification...just like Arminians/non-Calvinists.
Unconditional election only brings comfort if you have absolute certainty that you are elect.
Stefanm
God's work is certain....our relationship to it is what you are speaking about..see how Peter explains it here;
[QUOTE2 Peter 1
1Simon Peter, a servant and an apostle of Jesus Christ, to them that have obtained like precious faith with us through the righteousness of God and our Saviour Jesus Christ:
2Grace and peace be multiplied unto you through the knowledge of God, and of Jesus our Lord,
3According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue:
4Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.
5And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge;
6And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness;
7And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity.
8For if these things be in you, and abound, they make you that ye shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
9But he that lacketh these things is blind, and cannot see afar off, and hath forgotten that he was purged from his old sins.
10Wherefore the rather, brethren,
give diligence to make your calling and election sure: for if ye do these things, ye shall never fall:
11For so an entrance shall be ministered unto you abundantly into the everlasting kingdom of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.
12Wherefore I will not be negligent to put you always in remembrance of these things, though ye know them, and be established in the present truth.
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5Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves. Know ye not your own selves, how that Jesus Christ is in you, except ye be reprobates?
6But I trust that ye shall know that we are not reprobates.
7Now I pray to God that ye do no evil; not that we should appear approved, but that ye should do that which is honest, though we be as reprobates.
Stefanm.....Our enjoyment subjectively of what is called "assurance of salvation" can fluctuate with our obedience or lack of it,
To have a scriptural assurance of our calling and election demands that we have the scriptural marks of such assurance.If we have the Spirit of God in us, he will be at work in us...to will and to do of His good pleasure,
Many false professors keep re-dedicating themselves because they are drifting away from their false profession. When God really gets a hold of someone they are busy seeking and serving Him .
Most calvinists i know are concerned with pleasing God in all that they do. They know that the elect all will persevere. Any declenscion is examined in earnest. True faith works,,it is not passive.
not everyone is going to heaven..the doctrine does not keep them out ..sin does