A Common Mistake In Christian Marriages.

[HankD]

If you keep feeding it, it will stick around.

"It" obviously has a need.

HankD

 

[DHK]

You have more time than Jesus had. You have lots of time. Lol.

Jesus also said not to cast pearls before swine.
For anyone to refer to the Apostle Paul as a mental case would be applicable to the above words of Jesus.

"Case closed?" Have you been appointed and empowered to "close" issues in Scripture? Guess what ... ? I have reopened the "case." Lol. I enjoy people like you. It is fun to watch you try to "take charge" with your bossy words.

1. As a moderator I can close this case as in close this thread.
2. As a pastor I can close any Bible Study I start.
3. As a parent I can close the case as I set the boundaries for my children.
4. As a husband I can close the case as I have the final say in my family.
5. As a spiritual leader my direction comes from God, not my wife.

You have not reopened any case. You have been allowed to carry on posting. That is a privilege not a right. That right can be rescinded at anytime. Trolling is not permitted on the board. If you don't keep within the bounds of the rules which you agreed to when you registered here your case will be closed permanently and you will not be permitted to reopen any case. You have simply been given the privilege to keep on posting. It is a privilege, not a right.

Return to the original post of this thread. Is it a common mistake for Christian husbands to allow their wives to supposedly be an ethical and spiritual reference point to help keep Hubby "on track" in his spiritual leadership?

Only if husbands seek guidance from their wives. Otherwise no. I would never allow my wife to influence me as to what to preach.

Is that allowed by Scripture, or are such husbands merely whipped into compliance by their wives in order to think such a thing? What is most laughable is for those husbands to speak of it in church as if it is something God wants.

Do you laugh at the Holy Spirit? That is blasphemous! I allow the Holy Spirit to guide me as to what to say, even after putting hours of study into a message. My wife doesn't prepare my messages; I do.

 

[menageriekeeper]

1. As a moderator I can close this case as in close this thread.

This thread IS well past the 10 page mark........

 

[JoReba]

"It" obviously has a need.

HankD

Are you able to discern with wisdom and accuracy what is my "obvious need?"

Step up with Godly knowledge, rather than with big mouthed speculation. Can you ... ? Lol. I doubt it.

 

[seekingthetruth]

Are you able to discern with wisdom and accuracy what is my "obvious need?"

Step up with Godly knowledge, rather than with big mouthed speculation. Can you ... ? Lol. I doubt it.

Are you a male or female?

John

 

[JoReba]

oops

My kids would probably say that someone just got "owned".

Yes, you do need to listen to your kids for cognitive advice,
Let's see if you can take it sort of as you try to hand it out,
[offensive remarks edited]
Lol.

 

[seekingthetruth]

Yes, you do need to listen to your kids for cognitive advice, just as you need to be trained by your wife. You are a Good Hubby, arntcha ... ?

Let's see if you can take it sort of as you try to hand it out, or if you will go whine to the Mods.

Lol.

Do you have any friends in real life?

John

 

[JoReba]

I am a man and you have taught me that you are an idiot. Now, does that mean you'll stop posting?

Yes, I am sure you are a man. The real issue would be, "What kind of a man are you?"

Lol. Are you going to confirm this first display of what kind of a man you are in future posts ... ? This should be fun. All men get in deeper the more they try to think.

Lol.

 

[JoReba]

Nice shuffle, Jo. So they did not directly lead anyone (in your opinion, anyways). They could not both be silent and prophesy.

At least your consistent in both twisting Scripture and what people post here. I pray you learn submission easier than most.

State exactly how Deborah and Huldah led anyone.

Apparently, you do not quite know that Godly leadership consists of more than just telling other people what to do, and sounding important. Are you, perhaps, a Professional Church Talker ... ? A Sunday School Teacher ... ? Ever lead any real men other than the compliant little guys sitting in pews ... ?

Lol.

 

[JoReba]

I will give you an answer to that if you like:

2 Peter 3:16 As also in all his epistles, speaking in them of these things; in which are some things hard to be understood, which they that are unlearned and unstable wrest, as they do also the other scriptures, unto their own destruction.

I see you find vague and weakly relevant answers to be acceptable to your own thinking. You did not say if I should remain silent.

Can you step up with surety? Maybe you should "check" with your wife for some help ...

Lol.

 

[seekingthetruth]

I see you find vague and weakly relevant answers to be acceptable to your own thinking. You did not say if I should remain silent.

Can you step up with surety? Maybe you should "check" with your wife for some help ...

Lol.

Let me guess? your husband left you and you are divorced?

John

 

[JoReba]

JoReba, I thank God for your biblical insight. God has revealed these things to you by the spirit amen.

The real miracle is that the plethora of intuitive and weak little responses I generate are not at all bothersome to me.

It is very simple to stay on track with God's Word before me. I have been trained nonstop for many years regarding what I do. Even more, in my profession I face the public every day with all of their strange and miscongened ideas which just seem to walk right in the door with them ready to be spoken. Many of those people are under duress and are quite confused, not even able to hear their own words as they speak them.

The hilarious thing in this and other forums is that most Believers think they are above being affected by basic sinful human nature, and instead think they are "better" than other people.

Answer this question with your best guess: Do you think I ever speak frankly with God? Lol.

 

[JoReba]

Nothing to do with staying "within the comfort and support of (my) Church group." I just don't think it would be right, instead of worshipping with the church of which I am a member, to go deliberately in search of the false and unbiblical teaching that one of the roles of a Christian wife is “to serve her husband as an ethical and moral reference point during selected times when the husband might be ‘Just a little off of center’ in his thinking and decision making as a Spiritual leader of the family and in The Church.”

If I did do so, it would be easy to find some who teach other false doctrines, such as, "It doesn't matter what you believe as long as you are sincere," or "All religions worship the same God," or "Jesus was a good man, nothing more." But the likelihood of me finding the particular false teaching you mentioned about the role of the Christian wife would be slim here in the UK, as I attempted to point out in my earlier post.

Have you got some scriptural basis for saying that it is right for Christians to forsake services of their own church in order to go on a hunt for false teaching?

There is no Scriptural basis for the popular kind of Song and Dance "Services" found in Churches.

 

[JoReba]

Look closely at your attitude and sarcasm towards men.
Use your latest post as a model.


HankD

Jesus modeled sarcasm towards arrogant and presumptuous religious sounding people. He did not model the weak, little, milque toast sentiments found in trifling and helpless pewsitters.

 

[JoReba]

If you keep feeding it, it will stick around.

Do trolls make you feel uncomfortable or ... "unloved" ... ?

Lol. Remember, Jesus and The Apostles did not whine about other people who were not "just right." They stepped up like real Men of God and did their business. Can you ... ?

 

[JoReba]

The first reply to this thread should've been "if women are to do as you say, you should not be posting in this thread"

And that should've been the end of this thread. Seeing as trolling has been brought up, it's funny that it's endured.


While the verses indicated do state a womans role, they do not state the step further that our originator is trying to push.

I can't seem to locate a verse in the Bible where it says a man should not go to his wife. It's possible I'm missing it.

What exactly is this "next step" you think I am trying to push?

Step up like an intelligent Man of God and speak clearly while folding your arms. Lol.

("Our originator." Lol. What do you think you own in here ... ? Anything? Lol.)

 

[seekingthetruth]

But, after your husband left you, and you got divorced, do you really think that you are an authority on scriptural marriage?

John

 

[JoReba]

Jesus also said not to cast pearls before swine.
For anyone to refer to the Apostle Paul as a mental case would be applicable to the above words of Jesus.

1. As a moderator I can close this case as in close this thread.
2. As a pastor I can close any Bible Study I start.
3. As a parent I can close the case as I set the boundaries for my children.
4. As a husband I can close the case as I have the final say in my family.
5. As a spiritual leader my direction comes from God, not my wife.

You have not reopened any case. You have been allowed to carry on posting. That is a privilege not a right. That right can be rescinded at anytime. Trolling is not permitted on the board. If you don't keep within the bounds of the rules which you agreed to when you registered here your case will be closed permanently and you will not be permitted to reopen any case. You have simply been given the privilege to keep on posting. It is a privilege, not a right.

Only if husbands seek guidance from their wives. Otherwise no. I would never allow my wife to influence me as to what to preach.

Do you laugh at the Holy Spirit? That is blasphemous! I allow the Holy Spirit to guide me as to what to say, even after putting hours of study into a message. My wife doesn't prepare my messages; I do.

Where does Scripture specify that Christian husbands are to ever seek advice from their wives? Answer up without getting all huffy.

Does this Forum permit snide personal remarks as those directed at me? Yes? No?

 

[seekingthetruth]

Where does Scripture specify that Christian husbands are to ever seek advice from their wives? Answer up without getting all huffy.

Does this Forum permit snide personal remarks as those directed at me? Yes? No?

You, of all people, have no right to call someone else "snide"

lady, you take the cake

John

 

[JoReba]

Do you have any friends in real life?

John

God has over the years marvelously blessed myself and our family with many loving and entertaining friends. Lol.

(Notice how I worded that answer to sound magnanimously spiritual. That is a little rhetoric trick I have learned from listening to Professional Church Talkers. Lol.)