These verses spoke Jesus to his disciples. He was not speaking to the unsaved. This is important to note and remember. They have no application to the unsaved whatsoever.
Do you think Judas was saved?
That is not true. What you are teaching is a message of works instead of a gospel of grace by faith. IOW, your message is more akin to Hinduism or Islam. But salvation is by faith. We are saved by faith; not by obeying God.
Jesus plainly tells us that he will give us the Holy Spirit if we love him. Jesus says those who have his teachings and obey them are the ones who love him. You have a problem with the Word of God. You are suggesting that it is okay to sin. It is never okay to sin.
You quoted these verses:
John 14:15 "If you love me, you will obey what I command.
John 14:16 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever
Then you state that the unsaved man must obey them in order to be saved. The conclusion is that all men are basically good because all men are able to keep the commandments of Jesus even though they are not saved.
Are you telling me, that people can be saved and not have the Holy Spirit? That is what you are saying. Those to whom Jesus said “if you love me, you will obey what I command,” those people did not yet receive the Holy Spirit, and they would not receive the Holy Spirit unless they obey.
The natural man cannot obey Christ, Moriah. It is impossible for him to do so. You are teaching humanism--the basic goodness of man.
I am teaching the word of God. I am trying to show others how they can love God. I am teaching others to obey God. You are teaching Total Depravity. Total Depravity is nowhere in the Bible, it is a manufactured belief.
Yes, you quote the words of Jesus and then assume that those words--directed to the disciples of Jesus, apply also to the unsaved. Can the unsaved obey the commands of Jesus, those same commands given to his disciples? No. Only if one assumes that they are basically good and have no sin nature whatsoever. That is where your Pelagianism comes in. You believe the unsaved man can obey the commands of Jesus. But he can't.
Are you saying only saved people get married? If you get Jesus’ teachings, and read sex is between a married man and woman, are you saying, it is impossible to get married in order to obey. If you get Jesus’ teachings, and you read that all are sinners, are you saying it is impossible to admit to being a sinner unless you are already saved? If you get Jesus’ teachings, and you read that you must forgive your brother, are you telling me it is impossible to forgive your brother unless you are saved?
Unless the Holy Spirit is involved all seeking is in vain.
Do you believe that a person can be saved without the Holy Spirit?
That is what you need to answer. From what you say about the disciples, being saved and born again before Jesus gave them his Spirit, then you must admit that is what you believe.
You are confused.
1. A person cannot "wait upon God" if they are unsaved. How can a criminal before God, an enemy of God "wait on God"? That is impossible.
The Bible says, “for, "Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved." Romans 10:13. The Bible says the unsaved can call on the Lord! You say it is impossible, but I have shown you scripture.
That is like saying: why not let the convicts in the prison be the President's servants? Good suggestion, Moriah! Prisoners and enemies don't serve the king. They are enemies. They cannot "wait" upon God. Not until they are saved are they able to do that. Not until they are saved do they have any access to God whatsoever. They are alienated from God, totally separated from him. All their works are as filthy rags.
You keep using the scripture about filthy rags incorrectly. Not only that, please do not use your wisdom to explain to me what is spiritual. Just use the scriptures.
Christ died for your sins long ago, but his sacrifice was not efficacious for you until you believed.
Jesus died for me while I was a sinner. Do you get that?
Did you save yourself or did Jesus save you?
There must be conviction of the Holy Spirit before salvation.
Jesus saves people.
The Holy Spirit is given at the time of salvation, not after.
So then, Jesus disciples were not yet saved in John 14, according to your beliefs.
So then, why did you say Jesus’ disciples were all saved before they received the Holy Spirit? In addition, how can you say all of Jesus’ disciples were all saved and born again, Judas was a traitor.
You were a criminal in the sight of God before salvation and impossible of love toward him.
Romans 5:10 For if, when we were God's enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life!
I gave you scripture that God died for me when I was God’s enemy. Now you show scripture that says it is impossible to love God before I receive the Holy Spirit. Remember, Jesus says we receive the Holy Spirit when we love God! I have given you scripture; you will not be able to give scripture contradicting the Word of God.
It was also therefore impossible for you to obey him. You could not have done that without the aid of the Holy Spirit.
Jesus said we receive the Holy Spirit after we obey. Show scripture that says the opposite of that. You cannot.