A neighbor of mine once claimed to be a Calvinist to the max. And I asked him about that Calvinist future scenario regarding one of his children. His heartless response was that "Well at least I will be saved" and the firmly held hope that God would make him not love his child once he got to heaven. That he would be as uncaring about his child as God.
So fine that is how it went down in a discussion - in a debate. But when his child later turned to Calvinism and claimed he did not need to study at College or worry about anything because God would simply make whatever HE wanted to happen - happen and nothing man decided or did would make any change to that plan. Well then my neighbor suddenly developed a conscience about how Calvinism does not work. And how that teaching was destroying his child.
in Christ,
Bob
When one looks at the unavoidable consequences of the TULIP doctrine, it becomes very depressing indeed. John MacArthur was asked, "why did you once believe in free will choice?" He replied, "emotions". He admitted that he needed to quench his emotions that he might embrace TULIP. That should speak volumes to us and to the Calvinist. God's very essence entails emotions, yet the Calvinist believes emotions should be dismissed from the discerning of the doctrine. A Just and Holy and Emotional God says "Come, let us reason together". We see an emotional plea by God for people to repent and believe! Jesus wept over Israel for their un-repentance.