The more I read, the more evident it is that those who so vehemently defend OSAS are bound up in fear: They are afraid of the idea that we possess a free will and that it remains free after conversion. They are afraid of such freedom. But that simply dishonors and misunderstands God's nature.
When I got saved I had never heard of Calvinism. In fact I never came across Calvinism until three years later when I entered into Bible College. It wasn't an issue back then. But I knew I was saved. I knew if I died that moment I would go to heaven. I knew that I couldn't lose my salvation. It had nothing to do with Calvinism--something I had never heard of. And it had nothing to do with fear--a false allegation.
When I got saved (after being in the RCC for 20 years), I was presented the gospel in a very simple manner--something similar to the "Romans Road." After I made that choice to receive Christ; to trust him as my Savior, those discussing the Bible with me went one step further.
They made sure that I would have an assurance of salvation.
They explained that the devil would come and try to make you doubt your salvation, the very thing that you had just did. They gave me a NT, and signed their names in it, and put the date there for a reminder to me of what I did, and the time and place. I could always point back to the time of my salvation without doubt. They gave me Scripture:
"He that has the Son has life; he that has not the son has not life."
They made it plain that I have the Son. I just prayed and trusted him.
Other Scriptures they explained well: John 5:24; 1John 5:11,12;
This was not called eternal security or OSAS. It was a simple assurance of salvation which I have to this day. I learned later on in life that that assurance of salvation which I had been relying on all these years is the same as eternal security. It is God that keeps my salvation. It is the promises of His Word. I have never feared anything. I have always trusted in the promises of His Word.
What have I to dread, what have I to fear,
Leaning on the everlasting arms?
I have blessed peace with my Lord so near,
Leaning on the everlasting arms.
I rejoice in the fact that God loved me enough to want me to freely love Him and stay loyal to Him, as coerced loyalty is no true loyalty at all.
God has never coerced me to love him at all. Whatever would give you that impression?
I know whom I have believed and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day.
He keeps my salvation; not I.
The love of Christ constrains me to serve him.
Along with the Bible and the church for 1500 years, this is also how I know without a doubt that OSAS is false doctrine: it is contrary to God's nature.
I found it in the Bible never hearing about any of the Reformers or Calvin.
God wants us to be assured of his promises. He does not want us to live in fear which is basically what those who don't believe in eternally security must do.
It goes right along with the legalistic, deterministic fatalism that is Calvinism which is diametrically opposed to the truth of God's nature and thus the nature of all humans and angels.
This is false. I am not a Calvinist; not legalistic; not deterministic; not fatalistic, etc. You are confused and absolutely wrong in your allegation. To believe in the promises of God, that he will keep you as His sheep--never to perish, to have the gift of eternal life (which can never be temporary), is simply not to call Christ a liar.
God has always given everyone the freedom to choose whether to accept Him, love Him, and be loyal to Him, and He does not take away that freedom and ability to choose after conversion.
He gives us the Holy Spirit at the time of salvation. If a person denies Christ once he has the indwelling of the Holy Spirit then was he saved in the first place? Salvation requires change in a person. It requires sanctification. It is progressive not regressive.
He cannot do that because He cannot do anything contrary to Who He is.
Going against God's nature is to change a sheep into a goat. That God would never do.
Those who hold to OSAS are afraid of the freedom that God gives them.
A Christian does not live in fear. Perfect love casts out fear. If he lives in fear perhaps he isn't saved. Those who hold to eternal life have no fear of losing their salvation. Those who don't believe in eternal security should examine their faith for the fear they have of losing it.