2 Thessalonians 2:13 says our individual, not corporate election for salvation is conditional, i.e. through faith in the Truth. All these efforts to change the subject are simply evasions. Man is passive in regeneration, justification and adoption. This seems true, God regenerates us, causes us to be born anew. God justifies us, we do not justify ourselves by works of righteousness. And God will adopt us, the redemption of our bodies, at Christ's second coming. The issue of course comes with our understanding of what prompted God's monergistic action, did He credit our faith in Christ as righteousness, or did He chose us unconditionally and give us faith via irresistible grace. 2 Thessalonians 2:13 makes the answer crystal clear.
Calvinism collapses like a house of cards when scripture is actually studied.
1) They say no unregenerate person ever seeks God at any time, but scripture (Matthew 23:13) says unregenerate men were entering heaven.
Isaiah and paul disagree with you on that, as does jeremiah and John!
2) They say we are chosen individually unconditionally, but scripture (2 Thess. 2:13) says we are chosen through faith in the truth.
Romans 8 states the truth, of how God saves us from start to finish
3) They say Christ died only for the elect, but scripture say Christ laid down His life as a ransom for all.
Jesus death on the Cross was sufficient to have saved all sinners, yet clearly only some were meant to get saved by god from that act!
4) They say the grace drawing individuals to salvation is irresistible, but scripture say men entering heaven were blocked by false teachers.