Featured Reasons Not to Go To Church

In a recent sermon my Pastor mentioned that while preparing the message, it dawned on him that it had been a while since someone had asked him to pray for a lost soul.

He mentioned that he was regularly asked to pray for an aunt in the hospital that wasn't doing well, or a family member or friend that was on their death bed, but no requests for the salvation of an individual.

He summed it up in saying, "It seems the Body is more interested in keeping saints out of Heaven than they are keeping the lost out of Hell."

Great statement.

In regards to the rest of your statement, I think you make some great points. I am often discouraged when we gather that Theological Discussion seems to be a bit intrusive for some.

However, I don't look at it from a perspective that everyone going there have the wrong motives, or that the social aspects that are more human than spiritual are involved, primarily because there are people who are not flawlessly sinless involved. David Jeremiah remarked "If you're looking for the perfect church, you're not going to find it. And if you do, don't join it...you'll only wreck it." lol

And this is where I would make a point in regards to a reason to go to church: it is the training ground for learning to love imperfect people.

And sometimes the person we have to learn to love might just be ourselves, lol.


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It's just a discussion, ITL, no reason he shouldn't express his feelings.

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I would have to agree with him, that people that stay home to watch a football game give an excuse that is not legitimate.

Our own fellowship doesn't have an evening service on Super-bowl Sunday, and personally...I have a problem with that. I can understand not wanting people to miss a pretty important event in some people's lives, but what about those of us who aren't that interested in football, lol.

So he's expressing his feelings and has every right to do so. So do you.

Even sarcasm can be viewed as a feeling, lol. But could I suggest that we can manipulate feelings? What we say and how we say it is going to produce certain results?

I don't think it takes mind reading skills to think some people lay out for football. lol


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It doesn't change the fact he is expressing his feelings, and I see little difference from his own expression and yours. Both have a tone of sarcasm and seem to be a bit emotional.

Again, it's just a discussion in which we are discussing reasons not to go to church. Participants are free to express any view they like. They can give legitimate reasons, they can point out excuses.

You seem to be rebuking him for his expression, but my friend, can you not see a parallel sentiment in your own expression?

Some people are not enthusiastic about going to church, and the reasons for it are the topic. Can we really blame someone who doesn't go...because he/she was not treated very well when they did go? And that has an application to forum discussion among the Body. Would you admit that some of the "discussion" we see on forums, between so-called "brethren," wouldn't be a very good reason for people not to want to go to church?

I would agree he is giving excuses he disagrees with, but, this is an expression of how he feels on the subject...and that's okay. You expressed how you feel about what he said...that's okay. Let's not let those feelings keep us from discussing the topic. If you disagree with him, then point out what you disagree with. Confront him about assuming too much about the excuses he listed. At least give him the chance to understand where you're coming from, and maybe, just maybe, your perspective may broaden his. That's one of the great things about discussion, that we can learn from the experiences of others. This is a principle that helped me depart from a reviling attitude towards atheists which in turn opened me up to do what I am supposed to do...witness to them. The best witness is not just talking at people, but with them. There is an old saying (not sure how old, lol), "They will never care how much you know until they know how much you care."

I agree with that saying, but it's a hard lesson to fully grasp.

And sorry, didn't mean to go on so long, and not trying to preach at you, ITL, just pointing out that this is just discussion. Best to first know what people feel about something, then try to understand why they feel that way. If there is something we object to, then it become an issue of how we can try to help in that area.

A negative view will never be changed by another negative view. Reviling will never be changed by more reviling.


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Okay, so we have another reason not to go to church...there might be mind readers there...




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I think one thing you said that strikes a chord (or steps on a toe, lol) with me is...

I can say the same thing. There have been times when I have been discouraged, and really, I think most of the time it is more something personal than really having anything to do with the fellowship itself.

And I think it is just typical that most are not that interested in a more in-depth study of Scripture. That is one thing about most folks on Christian Discussion and Debate forums, the majority are interested in knowing Scripture better.


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