You picked the fight when you picked on the Owen quote in my signature
You asked for it by presenting it as though it was straight from the Bible.
In a nutshell your error is to continually threaten the elect with the prospect of eternal damnation. There is no such danger for the elect. If you were an Arminian espousing this 'hell fire damnation' I wouldn't even give it a second thought. But as one who supposedly holds to Sovereign Grace your obsession with warning the elect of the dangers of neglecting their sanctification and going to hell presents a stark contradiction.