"The point is that our own actions can impact whether others will be saved."
Matthew 23
15“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites, because you travel around on sea and land to make one proselyte; and when he becomes one, you make him twice as much a son of hell as yourselves.
I agree with your statement and there is more scripture like that.
But I don't see how the theology consistent with that statement. (your going to have to teach me)
Because according to my understanding of it, ACTIONS (WORKS) never impact anything.
A faith alone approach would just nullifies relationship between ourselves. The husband or wife same chance as any other stranger, why? Because according to the theology you CANNOT impact anything.
God is given limited grace for example a person who is not born again is allowed to breathe, God handles the heart beat for us, gives us family, but he doesn't give you any kindness, love. They got 2nd class selfish evil with an appearance of good, but they are incapable of any good whatsoever until God provides a spiritual essential he held back at your creation.
I probably got you all wrong, fix it for me. Because I do want to understand.
You bring up a great temporal based passage. The Pharisees had no control over salvation from the temporal perspective, but, their actions resulted in results that correlated to the actions. In other words, the godly influence of parents is used of God in the process of enlightenment, and the works, also godly, impact those under that influence.
I was a bit taken aback with the quote, and thought "I didn't say that!" lol
But in reviewing the post it is said in, and the context, I was able to breathe a sigh of relief because I made it clear that I am not talking about salvific attributes imparted through men. The corollary being neither do we excuse the individual that ends up rejecting God based on the actions of others, those individuals are still going to be held accountable themselves.
Actions/works do have an impact, in my view. The child raised up in a household where he might be exposed to the truth of the Gospel, but not see that truth mirrored in the parents lives (which is true of most to some extent because we simply cannot reflect the righteousness of Christ to the extent that the failures we have are not condemned by the child, who is, until saved, a fallen creature themselves), will likely bear the impact of the efforts of the parents. When it comes to salvation we cannot really create a model concerning the impact of efforts of the saved, because we can find children that grow up in wonderful households with godly parents being rebellious, and children growing up in godless conditions being saved despite those conditions. People can sit under great teaching for years, but never benefit from it, and people can sit under poor teaching and still come to great understanding because of outside influence and the ministry of God in their lives.
But it still doesn't negate our own responsibility to seek to obtain to the goals set for us in Scripture.
The primary point I think we fail to connect on, Utilyan, is in distinguishing between the temporal and eternal. Works are not divorced from the Christian's life, and he has grave responsibility to the lost. While we are not judged on an eternal basis for that done in the body, temporal judgment is simply a Bible Basic throughout Scripture. Believers are, for example, still put to death for sin in these days (Ananias and Sapphira, for example).
A faith alone approach would just nullifies relationship between ourselves. The husband or wife same chance as any other stranger, why? Because according to the theology you CANNOT impact anything.
And that is not what the passages quoted state.
But again, it is not saying that the believing spouse saves the unbelieving from the eternal perspective, but, on a temporal basis. And that is the influence that gives testimony to the truth of the Word of God, meaning, when we live that which is taught, it will be effective.
God is given limited grace for example a person who is not born again is allowed to breathe, God handles the heart beat for us, gives us family, but he doesn't give you any kindness, love. They got 2nd class selfish evil with an appearance of good, but they are incapable of any good whatsoever until God provides a spiritual essential he held back at your creation.
I would agree, it is grace that kept and keeps God from clearing the slate and wiping all of fallen humanity off the map, but, that should not be equated to the Grace of God in regards to salvation. Would you agree that before men can be saved they need to hear the revelation of God? In this Age, God is speaking to men through His Son (Hebrews 1:1-2), and the message spoken is the revealed Gospel of Jesus Christ. Now, we look at that family where we have a believer and an unbeliever, and the unbelieving is, hopefully, being exposed to the Gospel through both word and deed. Let's create two scenarios:
1. we have a believing spouse who is obedient to that which God commands and one act of obedience is loving the unbelieving spouse.
2. we have a believing spouse that rants at the unbelieving, elevates themselves over them, and basically beats that spouse over the head with their self-righteousness.
Do you think there will be differing impact on the two unbelieving spouses?
Doesn't mean that in every case the one shown love will give their lives to Christ, but, that does not negate the differing impact both types will have.
Jude presents two types of approach (in my view), one of compassion, which is something we should all have for the lost, and the other...saving them with fear, which can have two interpretations, the fear being that of the believer, and, the use of "fear" in regards to the unbeliever (Strong preaching). I think both are true, and as far as Jude's original intent, I lean to a combined intent, because I see both approaches as Biblical and often utilized by Christ and the Apostles. The same could be said of the Old Testament Prophets, but I see primarily that they are usually (when directly speaking to men) confrontational of sin and error, which does not usually generate a loving response from those it is directed at (though we do see fear as the result of much preaching in Scripture).
Not sure if that helps or not, but I hope that is what you were talking about.
God bless.