Hank, why don't you simply choose the terms provided in Scripture for what you are trying to define and it is not the word "church" or "body of Christ" the Bible provides but the terms "kingdom" and "family"
Some Apparent Differences
Eph. 3:15
Of whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named,
1 Cor. 1:13
Who hath delivered us from the power of darkness, and hath translated us into the kingdom of his dear Son:
1 Cor. 1:2
Unto the church of God which is at Corinth,
Furthermore, the following lessons will sustain these are to be distinguished from one another rather than interpreted as synonyms.
1. The difference of terminology and meaning:
a. "
Family" - Greek "
patria" - those fathered – lineage
b. "
Kingdom" - Greek "
basilea" - the rule and realm and Person of a king
c. "
Church" - Greek "
ekklesia" - congregation, assembly
2. The different applications
a. The Bible speaks of the “
gospel of the kingdom” but never uses such language for the
family or church.
b. The Bible speaks of the “
keys of the kingdom” but never uses such language for the church
or family of God.
c. The term “
member” is never used in scripture to describe those in God’s kingdom or family
but only those in churches.
d. The church is called a “
body” and “
building” but the kingdom and family are never thus
called.
e. Jesus says “
tell it to the church” but never says tell it to the kingdom or family.
f. The terms “
kingdom” and “
family” are only found in the singular but the term “
church” is
found in the plural (36 times) and in the singular (79 times).
g. A “
brother” can be placed outside the church membership by other brethren exercising
church discipline, but no human disciplinary action can remove any “brother” outside the
kingdom and family of God. – 1 Cor. 5:11; 2 Thes. 3:6,14.
h. The professing kingdom contains “
tares” (Mt. 13:41) and the church contains persons like
Judas, but the family of God only contains true born again believers.
i. The Kingdom and family contain persons without water baptism (all pre-New Testament
believers and unbaptized believers in this age), but church membership is for only water
baptized professed believers – Acts 2:41-42
j. We read of ‘
elders” and “
apostles” in the church but no such officers are ever used to
describe those in the kingdom and family.
k. Geographical names are given to the church – “
the church of God at Corinth” but no such
geographical language is ever used for the kingdom and family of God.
l. The church is described as being “
built” and “
fitly framed” but the kingdom is announced as
“
near at hand.” Neither the kingdom or family are said to be “
built” or “
fitly framed.”
3. The Difference in Nature
a. The church conveys an autonomous democratic body
b. The kingdom conveys a sovereign rule by a king
c. The family conveys a paternal relationship between a father and his children
4. The difference in relationship to God
a. "
Family" - relationship is defined as "
children"
b. "
Kingdom" relationship is defined as "
citizens"
c. "
Church" - relationship is defined as "
members"
5. The difference in size
a. "
Family" includes all saints in heaven and presently on earth - Eph. 3:15
b. "
Kingdom" –Is God’s rule over the entire universe but in regard to his spiritual kingdom
on earth it includes only “
the seed” presently on earth at any given time - Mt. 13
c. "
Church" – includes baptized believers gathered out of God's kingdom and family on earth
who actually assemble together - Acts 2:41
6. The difference in entrance
a. "
Family" is by birth "
born" a child of God - I Jn. 3:18
b. “
Kingdom" is by translation/birth - Col. 1:13/Jn. 3:3-6
c. "
Church" is by water baptism - Acts 2:41
7. The difference in origin
a. “
Kingdom” began with creation of this universe (Psa. 103:19) while the spiritual kingdom
on earth began with the first person saved from the fall (Adam) in Genesis thus born into
the kingdom of his dear son (Col. 1:13; Gen. 3:15; Acts 10:43). The professing kingdom
consists of the professed saved (true seed and tares) – Mt. 13
b. “
Family” began with new birth of first child of God – Gen. 3:15 (new birth prior to
Pentecost – Jn. 3:3-11; Ezek. 44:7)
c. “
Church” began with Christ’s First Advent and with the materials prepared by John the
Baptist – Acts 1:21-22; Lk. 1:17; – and first gifted officers set in the church – 1 Cor. 12:28.
First members and Foundation of church are found in the New Testament, not the Old
Testament (Eph. 2:20.
8. The difference in internal relationships
a. "
Family" persons can exist outside of the church - 1 Cor. 5:11; 2 Thes. 3:6; Acts10:43
b. "
Kingdom" persons can exist outside of the church - Acts 10:43; 2 Thes. 3:6
c. "
Church" persons can be removed from the church but not from the family or kingdom by
discipline - 1 Cor. 5:11; 2 Thes. 3:6
9. The difference in location
a. "
Family" persons are located in heaven and on earth - Eph.3:15
b. "
Kingdom" persons are located throughout the world - Mt. 13:38 - "
the field is the world"
c. "Church" located in one geographical spot - 1 Cor. 1:2 "
The church of God WHICH IS AT
Corinth"
10. The difference in what unites
a. “
Family” unity is by common birth, common Spirit, and common Father. – Rom. 8:9; Jn.
3:3-6
b. “
Kingdom” unity is by common rule and professed allegiance to the same King. – Mt. 13
c. “
Church” unity is by common doctrine, profession and baptism. – Acts 2:41-42
11. The difference in relationship to the gospel and salvation
a. "
Family" All who are genuinely saved by the same gospel, same way, same savior in
connection with new birth
b. "
Kingdom" All the saved and professed saved by the same gospel, way, Savior – Mt. 13:38
c. "
Church" All who publicly profess to be already in God’s family and Kingdom BEFORE
they can be received into church membership by water baptism - Acts 2:41-42
12. There is a contrasting kingdom, family and church
a. Kingdom of darkness – Col. 1:13 – “
the world” system – Jn. 17:9
b. Family of Satan – Jn. 8:44; Gen. 3:15 “
seed” “
tares” etc.
c. Church of Satan – Rev. 17:5; 18:4 – “
synagogue of Satan” – Rev. 2:9; “
corrupted” virgins
(2 Cor. 11:3-4)
13. There is a difference in the New Creation
a. "
Family" many “
saved” will live outside the New Jerusalem on new earth - Rev. 21:24 and
be guests at wedding - Rev. 19:8-9 and have the “leaves” of the tree of life – Rev. 22:2
b. "
Kingdom" many “
saved” will live outside of New Jerusalem on new earth - Rev. 21:24
and be guest at wedding - Rev. 19:8-9 and will have the “leaves” of the tree of life – Rev.
22:2
c. "
Church" is the bride dressed in white (Rev. 19:6-7) and will eat of the tree of life (Rev.
2:7) and live inside the city (Rev. 22:1-3)