Featured New Years Resolutions

That I will be a witness to those whom I come into contact at work.

 

I would confess my sin of not loving nor obeying God, confess my sins against her to God and to my wife, apologize for abandoning her and my family, and humble myself before God, my wife, my family, repent of an unscriptural divorce and do everything necessary to win my wife back by loving her the way God expects me to.

Oh. Wait. That's not me. I am still married to the same woman for 41 years.

I must have been thinking about someone else.

 

Proverbs 27:6 Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

 

I've been under conviction about the amount of time I spend on this forum compared to the amount of time I get to spend with my family. Time is a limited resource and we need to be mindful of how we spend our hours. I believe that we are accountable not only for what we do but for what we neglect. So with that in mind, I need to stop wasting time enjoying my family and start spending more time exercising my God given gifts of discernment and wisdom by correcting the errors of others on this forum.

 

Unfortunately, the OP has been very clear to show that he is NOT repentant over his divorce and he blames his wife when he was the one who filed for the divorce and admits it was not for biblical reasons. He excuses his choice away and then goes out preaching to people that they must repent because they break the 10 commandments when he himself has broken this one blatantly. And then he comes here and accuses people here of not witnessing enough when he himself didn't obey Christ's teaching to love his wife as Christ loved the church. I think TC's post was spot on although it seemed harsh. Remember Jesus told us to not judge lest we be judged with the same measure - and that instead we are to take the log out of our own eye first. I think that might be something the OP might want to consider when posting.

 

I'm sorry Evan. Last I knew, you were blaming your wife for causing to have you divorce her and you were making every excuse to make it not your fault. So you have come to realize that you should not have filed for divorce but have you repented of that sin? Have you stopped looking at other women to date and repented of that as well?

 

Then fix it. No excuses. No delays. Fix it.

 

Most of my posts are an attempt to preach repentance to you. But you keep ignoring the Truth.

 

If I didn't love your sin sick soul I wouldn't bother.