Perhaps you need to consider the following:
1) Christ died because His blood was depleted from His body, and it was the blood that is the remissions of sin.
John's use of propitiation in his letters was specific about the blood dealt with the sin issue
for the whole world.
Johns statement in the gospels of the death of Christ was for
the whole world.
Paul's use of propitiation was specific to the tabernacle/temple furniture in which the blood was sprinkled. That the seat of God (so to indicated when God's presence came to rest on both the tabernacle and temple) was sprinkled with the blood for
all in the land - irregardless of faith, race, creed, custom...
There is no contention between us on this matter.
What seems to have rubbed the fur wrongly is the work on the verse of 2 Peter 3.
2) As one who holds to the Doctrines of Grace, without the "reformed view" of limited atonement, but the Scripture view that atonement is limited by God's direct and purposed choosing of those saved, it is highly inconsistent to suggest that "desire" contains some obligation of God. It does not.
For example:
Scriptures state that "every knee will bow.." That is not a desire; rather, it is that which will take place.
In contrast the Scriptures state in Acts 17, "
30“Therefore having overlooked the times of ignorance, God is now declaring to men that
all people everywhere should repent,..."
Yet in 2 Peter 3, "
9The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you,
not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance.
What is the difference between these two "ALL" statements.
The one in Acts 17 is directed to the people of the world.
The one in 2 Peter 3 is directed to the believers. As one follows the flow of who is the subject (the personal pronouns of the verse), there is nothing to even suggest that the verse can be aligned to all people of the world.
But there is a matter of deportment we need to address.
It is appropriate that we discuss the Scriptures and that we render meaning from the Scriptures.
It is appropriate that we discuss the limits of application that occur in a passage.
But it is not appropriate for you to slander this old man by stating that I have added to the Scriptures. That is a false statement, only supported by bias and opinion. It has no basis in reality.