1 Timothy 3:1 NASB
It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspires to the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do.
Though, if I had one job it would be working for a church.
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1 Timothy 3:1-7 The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church? He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.
Remember that it was the already established elders who watched and chose the elders. Paul lays out requirements that make for an elder. In a Godward church the process will take years of observation.
You mention your conversion is 3.5 years ago. Have you been a member at the same church all this time, being mentored by Godly elders? Can the congregation see your Godward life? Are your children walking in faith? Is your house in order?
Again, my counsel is to rest deeply in Christ. Let God work in you and know that if God wills, God will appoint you an elder. Don't force your way through impatience. It will not go well.
Let the Master appoint your place at the table. Don't push to sit at the front of the table.