Ok suspend the idea for a moment that the trigger word ' chosen ' means in the sense of the old highlander series . And that it simply means for purpose and service . After Jesus himself was the elect ,and Israel .
Now your second point will never be clear to you unless you see that we who are already in Christ and because of being in him , now we are predestined to BE conformed/ Adoption/ inheritance/ redemption of the body . ALL of those are only recieved upon the return of Christ .
Chosen =
eklogē = Strong’s G1589
Strong’s Definitions:
ἐκλογή eklogḗ, ek-log-ay'; from G1586; (divine) selection (abstractly or concretely):—chosen, election.
Thayer’s Greek Lexicon:
ἐκλογή, -ῆς, ἡ, (ἐκλέγω),
election, choice;
a.
the act of picking out, choosing: σκεῦος ἐκλογῆς (the genitive of quality; cf. Winers Grammar, § 34, 3 b.; [Buttmann, 161 (140f)]), equivalent to ἐκλεκτόν, namely, τοῦ θεοῦ, Acts 9:15; specifically used of that act of God's free will by which before the foundation of the world he decreed his blessings to certain persons; — ἡ κατ’ ἐκλογὴν πρόφεσις, the decree made from choice
[A. V.
the purpose according to election, cf. Winer's Grammar, 193 (182)], Romans 9:11 (cf. Fritzsche at the passage, p. 298ff); — particularly that by which he determined to bless certain persons through Christ, Romans 11:28; κατ’ ἐκλογὴν χάριτος, according to an election which is due to grace, or a gracious election, Romans 11:5; with the genitive of the person elected, 1 Thessalonians 1:4; 2 Peter 1:10.
b.
the thing or person chosen: equivalent to ἐκλεκτοί, Romans 11:7. (Plato, Aristotle, Polybius, Diodorus, Josephus, Dionysius Halicarnassus, others.)
Bible verses containing G1589:
- [Act 9:15 NASB] 15 But the Lord said to him, "Go, for he is a chosen[G1589] instrument of Mine, to bear My name before the Gentiles and kings and the sons of Israel;
- [Rom 9:11 NASB] 11 for though [the twins] were not yet born and had not done anything good or bad, so that God's purpose according to [His] choice[G1589] would stand, not because of works but because of Him who calls,
- [Rom 11:5, 7, 28 NASB] 5 In the same way then, there has also come to be at the present time a remnant according to [God's] gracious choice.[G1589] ... 7 What then? What Israel is seeking, it has not obtained, but those[G1589] who were chosen[G1589] obtained it, and the rest were hardened; ... 28 From the standpoint of the gospel they are enemies for your sake, but from the standpoint of [God's] choice[G1589] they are beloved for the sake of the fathers;
- [1Th 1:4 NASB] 4 knowing, brethren beloved by God, [His] choice[G1589] of you;
- [2Pe 1:10 NASB] 10 Therefore, brethren, be all the more diligent to make certain about His calling and choosing[G1589] you; for as long as you practice these things, you will never stumble;
Let’s just stick with the Biblical meaning of “chosen” ... that’s what Calvinists do when we say that God chose whom He would save.