I read your own words and see you put man as the cause agent. You wrote:You really believe that don't you, that is so sad. You continue to deny scripture. You are so prideful that you can not see the possibility that you are wrong. That is the height of arrogance. You continue to hold to your Calvinism in the face of clear scripture.
Do yourself a favor and use Blue Letter Bible. Do a search for believe and how it is used. Who is the one that believes God or man? I really feel sorry for you Austin, I think you would like to know God but the God you have in view is not the God of the bible rather He is one of your imagination.
"God saves those that trust in the Son."
Is it really any different than saying "God helps those who help themselves"?