Hello Charlie.
I think I can help you quite a bit here, if you are open to it. I will address your "sign post" thing in a bit.
You posted this;
Charlie, first thing is, it is not going to help you by calling the sound teaching of scripture, and call it a theory. It is not any theory, but rather revealed truth. Secondly, the real sign post is in your post!
The real signpost here is....you have a completely false view of the biblical word foreknowledge as used in scripture. I have never seen any person come to a correct understanding of these truths, who get this definition wrong. In short; In Romans 8:29-30 notice carefully how the bible uses the word..do not go to an English dictionary..
Notice it declares...For Whom He did Foreknow {persons} It does not say; For "what" he did foreknow {events, or things}
God is omniscient so we Know he is aware of all things. This is not that however Look at the text; Rom8:29-30, watch, the Whom / Them
29 For
whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among
many brethren.
30 Moreover
whom he did predestinate,
them he also called: and
whom he called,
them he also justified: and
whom he justified,
them he also glorified.
It is only used of the people..not things, or events, Uninformed persons go to a dictionary and totally miss the import of the biblical usage.
For more study, look here;
The Foreknowledge Of God By Arthur W Pink - Coming In The Clouds
Not so, at all! God has a knowledge of all men ever born, before they were even formed in the womb. God has not reached out to all men, savingly. Creation, and conscience let men know there is a God, and they are responsible before Him. That does not explain the fullness of the gospel at all. It if only those who are "Foreknown by God in this special relationship ,that get the full revelation of God's grace and mercy!
No, not true. Many have lived and died without ever hearing about Jesus at all. They have lived and died apart from any saving knowledge of the Lord Jesus.
Yes, all men everywhere are fully responsible to out thrice Holy God. They are responsible, and yet, without excuse. That is why Missionaries go out, and we try and reach everyone we can!