The Scripture PASSAGES below explain the baptism with the Holy Spirit.
And the important DETAILS in each passage are shown in the chart below.
Please notice how these details are so inter-connected (linked together) in the chart.
Note: all of the details of an event are seldom recorded every time the event occurs.
1 Luke 24:49 ------ 8 Acts 8:14-19
2 Acts 1:4-8 ------ 9 Acts 9:17-18
3 Acts 2:1-4 ----- 10 Romans 15:19
4 Acts 2:33-39 --- 11 Acts 10:44-48
5 Acts 4:8-16 ---- 12 Acts 11:15-17
6 Acts 4:31 ------ 13 Acts 14:3
7 Acts 5:12-16 ----14 Acts 19:5-6
------------------- 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14
the Promise --------Y-Y---Y-------------------------
baptism with HS ------Y-------------Y--------Y-----Y
the gift -----------------Y---------------Y--Y------
upon ---------------Y Y Y---------Y-------Y--Y-----Y
laying on of hands ---------------Y-Y-----------Y--Y
filled with HS ---------Y---Y-Y-----Y---------------
received HS ----------------------Y-------Y---------
speaking tongues -------Y-----------------Y--------Y
power --------------Y-Y-----------Y----Y------------
boldness -------------------Y-Y-----------------Y---
miracles -------------------Y---Y---Y--Y--------Y---
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Your attempting to tie all the above scripture together in order to define the baptism in the Holy Spirit based on a lot of assumptions that are simply wrong.
What you are failing to see is the broader picture. There is a TRANSITION occuring beginning with the ministry of John the Baptist and concluding with the day of Pentecost that has some temporal continuing consequences.
John was sent to "prepare a people made ready for the Lord" - Lk. 1:17
Jesus took the material prepared by John and built the New house of God or the New Testament congregation.
This New Testament congregation is the new "house of God" designated for public worship where a qualified ministry and qualified ordinances replace the former house of God and its qualified ministry and ordinances (1 Tim. 3:1-13).
With the building of every new "house of God" there was what the Jews called the "dedication service" where God publicly accredited it by an outward manifestation of shikinah glory that immersed and filled the entire new house:
1. The Tabernacle:
Ex. 40:34 ¶ Then a cloud
covered the tent of the congregation, and the glory of the LORD
filled the tabernacle.
2. The Temple of Solomon:
2 Chron. 7:11 ¶ Now when Solomon had made an end of praying, the fire came down from heaven, and consumed the burnt offering and the sacrifices; and the glory of the LORD
filled the house.
2 And the priests could not enter into the house of the LORD, because the glory of the LORD had filled the LORD’S house.
3 And when all the children of Israel saw how the fire came down, and the glory of the LORD
upon the house, they bowed themselves with their faces to the ground upon the pavement, and worshipped, and praised the LORD, saying, For he is good; for his mercy endureth for ever.
3. The New Testament Congregation:
Acts 2:1 ¶ And when the day of Pentecost was fully come,
they were all with one accord in one place.
2 And suddenly there came a sound from heaven as of a rushing mighty wind, and it
filled all the house where they were sitting.
3 And there appeared unto them cloven tongues
like as of fire, and it sat upon each of them.
In the book of Matthew there is a transition of administrative authority taken from the Jews and the Jewish house of God (Mt. 16:19; 18:17-18; 21:43; 24:37) with the rending of the veil in the holy place signifying the presence of God has left that house of God and then taking up residence in the new house of God in Acts 2:1.
Hence, there is this TRANSITION of administrative government from one house of God to another "house of God."
The "Promise of the Spirit" includes the baptism in the Spirit but much more. It includes the promise of a New Covenant Scriptures completed under the supervision of the apostolic office (Isa. 8:16-18; Jn. 16:13; 2 Thes. 2:15; 2 Pet. 3:15-17; 2 Tim. 3:15-16).
There are "signs" that confirm the apostolic office (2 Cor. 12:12). Take note that in the first five chapters of the book of Acts no one did signs miracles or wonders but the apostles - no one! In Acts 6 only after the apostles laid hands upon the 7 deacons do we read of any others doing signs and wonders. This Apostolic "sign" and ability was what Simon tried to buy:
Acts 8:18
And when Simon saw that through laying on of the apostles’ hands the Holy Ghost was given, he offered them money,
19 Saying, Give me also this power, that on whomsoever I lay hands, he may receive the Holy Ghost.
This is how Timothy received such ability through the laying on of apostolic hands (2 Tim. 1:8). This is what Paul wanted to do for the churches in Rome (Rom. 1:11) as there were no sign gifts listed among those at Rome (Rom. 12:7-11).
You are confusing things that should not be confused because the "promise of the Spirit" has reference to diverse things that relate only to the new house of God and its mission. The only relevance it has to salvation of individuals is to the new mission of God's new house which is no longer restricted to JEWISHISM but to the whole "world" (Mt. 28:19; Acts 1:8; Rom. 11).
Paul when writing the congregation at Corinth told them that the Holy Spirit indwells two different types of temples not made with hands. The first one he mentions is the singular "temple" or church institution (1 Cor. 3:16) and the second "temple" is the individual child of God (1 Cor. 6:17). The baptism in the Spirit has to do with the former and not with the latter as the individual believer has always been indwelt and regenerated by the Holy Spirit (Rom. 8:9). Study Romans 8:8-9 and you will see that Paul classifies all human beings into only TWO classifications (1) those in the flesh; (2) those in the Spirit and those in the Spirit are indwelt by the Spirit of God or they are NONE OF HIS.
On the other hand, your theory of the baptism "with" the Spirit demands another kind of salvation after Pentecost than before Pentecost which the Scriptures deny (Acts 10:43; 26:22-23; Heb. 4:2; Rom. 8:9).